Get rid of bad seed

Good Morning,
Do you have someone in your life that you are allowing to suck your energy?
If so Why?
Many times it just happens and they convince you that you cant live without them and that life with them is better than life without them... are you really that co dependant? Many of us are we want to be loved anyway we can get it... even if its unhealthy Love ...I talk so must about Love and walking in Love but what about unhealthy Love do we ever discuss that topic...I know you must know what I'm talking about..An old boyfriend, a bad friendship...People in your life that just are not healthy for you. They convince you that they are different... they miss you...They cant stop thinking about you..things will be different this time...and on and on.


You want so desperately to be loved by all and be a good person so before you know it, because you are a good person.... bad seeds come back into your life that you once said goodbye too...Now your confused and right back into those unhealthy relationships that were over for a reason. Everyone wants Love, Everyone wants to feel good and valued, and everyone wants to be complimented and treated good, but sometimes we get confused on which kind of Love is Healthy Love , and which Love is not.

Depending on how you were raised and how your parents showed you love is how you receive Love what you were taught as a kid is how you expect to be treated....how many times do you say to yourself that you deserve unconditional love and do we even no what unconditional love truly is?
Many things to think about in are Life's. what I'm trying to get you to think about is Valuing yourself enough even if you were not raised in the ideal family life" full of Unconditional Love" to start new and fresh, and start Loving yourself enough starting today to expect the best kind of Love in your life that you could ever imagine possibly, and It will require getting rid of Bad seed...they will move on and your life will be better for it. Love with all your heart and soul, and expect nothing less in return, don't settle for second best when it comes to Love and relationships....Expect excellence always .
You get to train people how to treat you.

By your actions your children learn.... teach them healthy boundaries and teach them healthy Unconditional Love, and its never to late....Treat people the way that you want to be treated, and expect it back always....Delete people from your past that are in your past for a reason old boyfriends, family, friends that were not healthy that's why there not suppose to be in your life.
Then forget about them... say a prayer for them and keep moving forward in your life striving for all that you deserve and more make this life the best that you can possibly imagine possible, and don't look back, and stop your fleshly ways... they will get you into trouble...Not sure who I'm speaking to today, but this is what you get for the daily message, always keep the past in the past and move forward...I love you and you deserve to be loved and valued.

Peace and Love Always, Ursula