Wednesday, June 30, 2010

Happy Hump day

Good Morning.
Happy Hump Day. This morning I'm taking my oldest son to court he got into some trouble, and now he must face the Judge...I pray that this will be a life lesson that he will not want to go through again, and it will teach him not to hang out with kids that will lead him astray, and even though he was just with the friend that did it, he still gets in trouble, so that is my prayer, that he will learn his lesson and we can all move on, and he can make positive healthy choices for himself in the future.

Its going to be another Beautiful day today. Might have to walk, or jog along the river after court, or do something fun in the sun. When we continue to look at the bright side of life even when we are going through trials and tribulations, the troubles don't seem to appear as bad or stay that long.

We will all have situations in our life that happen that we do not have control of, but if we learn to take are alone time pray and seek guidance, we will have the strenght and the courage to move forward. We never know what is going to happen from day to day, we just get to go with the flow of life seeking and searching to be the best that we can be living, loving and nurturing, ourselves and are relationships daily, and not being judgemental of people or situations that happen.

When we practice walking in love despite the situations that we cant change you begin to get a hole new outlook on life teaching and learning to Love even though. My son knows that no matter what I will always Love him forever, and that's the way we need to treat each other forever and always, and we can make this world a better place. Ask and you shall receive..knock and it shall be opened...seek and you shall find....Celebrate daily the beautiful miracles all around, and allow yourself to have Peace that surpasses all understanding..no matter what.

Peace, and Love Always, Ursula

Tuesday, June 29, 2010

Getting ready for a vacation

Good Morning,
I have been staying up really late this week,because my oldest son has friends that knock on his basement window, and try and get him to sneak out every night, so I'm the security system down there for now until we get the alarm on those windows and set traps for his friends, and then trying to sleep in, but I love mornings so the latest I can sleep in is 7:00am...I enjoy mornings they are peaceful, and its the only time that every ones sleeping, and I can actually here the birds singing outside, and enjoy Peace and quiet to recharge my battery for the day ahead.

Many things have been going on this week took my Oldest son for a hair cut yesterday, because he got into some trouble with a friend and he has court this Wednesday morning at 8:00am, this is the first time he has ever got in any trouble, so I didn't want him going to court looking like a heathen.

Thursday we are packing up and getting ready for a family Fourth of July Vacation for Five days, Traveling to stay with great friends, and of course my Husband was Volunteered to paint there house while we are there, so not much for a Vacation for him, other then he will be with his best friend the whole time, chatting while they work.

My mom will be staying at our Home for five days taking care of are Dogs, cats, fish , and turtles...So thankful for that, Of course I will be bringing my Laptop to stay in touch with my Internet world. We should have a lot of fun they have a huge fireworks show every year and my kids get to set off there own fireworks...so of course they love to go there...Lots of great Food, great company, and a wonderful Vacation time.

So today is a normal day write blog, workout, shower, work a little on advertising, and spend a great day with my kids... enjoying the heat, that is finally here and get everything ready for are Vacation.
may your day be blessed, and Fulfilled, and you make all your dreams come true.

Peace and Love Always, Ursula

Monday, June 28, 2010

Enjoying Everyday LIfe

Good Morning,
Everyday I wake up expecting the best to happen loving life, and being what I need to Be daily. Learning to go with the flow of life, learning to slow down, and nourish my relationships, creating Life time relationships... by spending the quality Time daily that I need to developing, Life time communication with my Children..Knowing that they have a safe place to fall with me.

Sometimes it may seem that what your doing on a Day to day basis is not enough, or that its not effective, and then I here a program on... the best thing you can do for your relationships with friends, and family is to Nourish that relationship daily. After all isn't that what we are looking for Is Love the kind of Love that you never have to worry about going away, the kind of Love that keeps you Dreaming, and awake at night,The kind of Love that makes you crazy, the kind of Love that makes you smile even when you see there picture, or here there voice, and the kind of Love that gives you butterfly's in your stomach.

WE are all searching for Love...Love is Light ..Happiness...Peace..Joy and what we are always searching for with friends relationships, family, and people we talk to day by day. We can have many types of Love relationships. The kind of Love you feel for your Spouse, the kind of Love you feel for your children... the kind of Love you feel with your Friends, and the kind of Love you feel with a special connection...You can feel many types of Love if you Love yourself first, and allow yourself to receive this special Gift.

So why wouldn't we want to enjoy are Everyday Life Celebrating all the Love all around us. I feel blessed every single Day with the Love all around me. I feel it because I Give it, and I allow myself to receive it back. There are no walls or barriers stopping it from coming to me, because that's how I choose to live my Life. If you've ever had a broken heart... which we all have, and start to have bad things happen you tend to build up walls trying to protect yourself from it ever happening again, and then before you know it you push everyone in your Life away until your alone and miserable. Please Break down your walls today, and allow yourself to heal and Learn To Love yourself first... in a well balanced way and put positive Loving vibes out into the world and allow yourself to receive Love again...WE all deserve to have true wonderful Happy Love.

Make this Day a day to nourish the people that are already in your Life by telling them daily how much you Love and value them. Its easy to do and I promise... Love will come pouring back to you. choose this Day to enjoy, and Love yourself, and plant seeds of Love everywhere you go.. Let the Love shine through your whole being, and when they Look in your eyes your eyes will sparkle with Love, and that is the window to your soul.

May today not be a day wasted with any negative energy only Peace, Love, and Happiness...I promise you that if you allow yourself to make these changes you will always feel Loved, valued, and live everyday to the fullest without any regrets. I Love you all, and thank you for reading my Blogs Daily.

Peace, and Love Always, Ursula

Sunday, June 27, 2010

Being a Parent

Good Morning my Wonderful Friends,
This morning I'm sitting and reflecting on all the Beauty around me Beautiful people, Beautiful yards and gardens, and just simply focusing on all the wonderful beauty all around, and attracting more to my life.

I talk a lot about positive living because, I feel that is the key to success when you focus on all the positive then there is no room for negative thoughts, and feelings to be there. What you focus on is what you will attract, I choose daily to attract positive people, positive health and wellness, Laughing and living life to the fullness no matter what.

We all have choices how and what we are going to do with are life's..Living how we choose, creating what we want and then taking the action steps to achieve what we say we want. Setting goals achieving Goals, and making abundance lists of what you want in life.

When I have quite times like this my mind fills with all things that are possible if we believe...Believe and achieve. Being a wife and a mom is one of the hardest most unappreciated jobs in the world, and yet it can also be the most rewarding jobs in the world. When times get tough and you feel devalued or unappreciated...Look inside yourself for guidance..we as parents will have bad days, and good days so when you have a bad day don't give up and run just allow yourself to feel your feeling if you need alone time lock yourself in a room, and then come out after you have felt your feelings.

Moms and dads have the toughest job in the world trying to make sure you guide and lead your child in the right direction and then praying that teen years they will remember everything you taught them. My oldest is fifteen and hes in the" I know it all years..Getting girl crazy thinking he can do whatever he wants" The teen years... I don't think anyone can prepair us for these times, we just have to take it one day at a time, and when they screw up, because they all will make poor choices once in awhile. we have to remember its all Life lessons that they must go through to develop there character, and who they choose to be, and them as parents its our job to pray for them daily, and trust that the teen years will pass, and they will be wonderful adults soon.

We do not know what the future holds for are children or ourselves we just get to trust daily and pray for ourselves friends and family, and pray that everything will be exactly the way its suppose to be daily, and all are needs are met today, and that is all we need to focus on is day to day.

Please don't waist anytime worrying about the future or anything you cant change its just wasted energy..Everything is going to be alright, and yes if you have teens like me you will make it through even if you think you cannot make it one more day..I'm here to tell you... yes you can and God will not give you more than you can handle day by day...Trust God...Trust what you have instilled into your children's life, and be the Role model they need to see...Guide and lead with Love,and always listen and allow your children to have a voice, and keep your communication strong even when you feel like " who is this Kid " trust me fifteen you will wonder who this kid your talking to is.
make today and everyday great..make the best out of every situation, and find a good support system when your going through difficult times.

Peace and Love Always, Ursula

Friday, June 25, 2010

U Matter

Good Morning,
Today I want you to remember that you matter, and that you are valuable, and lovable, and there is no one out there exactly like you. There is only one... with your beauty, personality,thoughts, feelings...God created you perfect just the way you are, and he went so far as making everyone different, and unique.

How great it is if you think about that. We each have are own finger print, and unique, and special gifts and talents...Why would you want to look like someone else, or be like anyone else..WE get to Celebrate life just as we are, and making ourselves better each day..loving ourselves, embracing our gifts and talents, and being who we were created to be... using our God given talents, and celebrating all are blessing.

You get to create a beautiful wonderful life for yourself, and don't let any ones negative thoughts or actions tear you down, You are wonderful creative, loving and Powerful... always remember that. It will get you through the difficult times... that we all have in life.

How wonderful that there is no one like us, why would we want to look in the magazines, and look or act like someone else. WE can always improve what we have but always remember to Love yourself, and embrace your personality, and be who you were created to be, and follow your peace within your heart to guide you, and lead you in the right direction.

Think of people, and family, friends as blessings from God, because they are, and who you come in contact with daily is exactly who you were meant to contact that day..Reach out to people...Love people, and spread your spirit, and Joy to the world.

Are gifts and talents were meant to be shared with the world...Loving...Laughing...Being in the moment, and Celebrating each Day making this world a Better place, because you touched as many Hearts as possible in a Day. Please Don't live your Life being bitter, and resentful, and mad all the time.

I choose today to Love myself in a well balanced way, and spread my Love, and Joy to as many people as possible using my gifts and talents that God has given me, and making as many people smile as possible....Love your life and be a blessing to yourself, and others today and always..When you become a giver it comes back to you always.

Love with all your heart, and passion, and be the Light that God created you to be...Today and always, and watch miracles start to happen in your thoughts, Actions, Business, and everything you set your hand to... will turn into Abundance. Your Gifts will be manifested.

Love and Peace Always, URSULA

Thursday, June 24, 2010

Life is Fantastic

Good Morning,
Life Is Fantastic and Beautiful...It makes me smile when I think about all the blessing all around me, Flowers in the garden, my wonderful herb Garden, raspberry Bushes full of raspberries, rhubarb, onions, roses all around, and just green grass all around this is my favorite time of year everything looks so beautiful...How could you not be happy seeing all this Beautiful Nature all around us.

Celebrate the simple things in life,that we just all expect to be there every year, Learn to slow down and smell the roses, life is Beautiful, and wonderful, and exciting, we must learn to take a deep breath and meditate every morning celebrating all we can, and focusing on the Beauty that is already there.

As we learn to do this daily there is nothing that can get you down, and negative because what happens is whatever you focus on you create in your life...You get to attract situations and the right attitude, and people in your life...It all starts with you you reflect energy out in the Universe and the same kind of energy comes back to you...So what are you projecting out in the Universe?

I encourage us all to live the best most positive happy healthy, beautiful life that we can create for ourselves. Life is magical and fantastic, and the more you say and do this the better life becomes, and before you know it instead of yelling at your kids the little things just don't seem to bother you as much, and you begin to become child like again, and fill full of peace and happiness, and your the one that is turning up the music and dancing, and people will wonder what kind of drug your on, so that they can have it for themselves. Its funny whenever my friends and I meet for coffee the people that are there say" I want whats in there coffee because they are having so much fun".

There is no pill or drug or anything a Doctor can give you to make you feel good or happy... it starts with living and Loving God, And yourself in a well balanced way, and projecting that out into the world and letting your light shine bright for all to see. I encourage myself, and you today that no matter what happens in life, that we can be happy and live the most Fantastic life ever doing what we Love daily...We have to create it for ourselves, and it is easy to do you must allow life to flow and be spontaneous, Healthy, and Happy no matter what...It is as simple as a Daily Choice. What choice will you choose? Positive or Negative ? I choose Positive today, and forever. Have a blessed day today and remember its a daily Choice.

Peace and love Always, Ursula

Wednesday, June 23, 2010

My Birthday

Good Morning my wonderful friends,
Wow..today is my Birthday and I turned forty one years young today, I still feel great and getting healthier everyday. I am so very grateful for being as healthy as Ive been, and I can truly say I feel twenty one instead. I can remember when I was little thinking people in there forty's were so old, and now that I'm here I feel great, and I can attribute that to my lifestyle choices, I don't smoke, hardly ever drink, and I choose everyday to exercise, and eat healthy...I believe that that is why I feel as good as I do today.

That's all that matters to me today is that I have an amazing Family, amazing friends, and I live life to the fullest daily, and being the best that I can be, and treating people the way that I want to be treated. I am Celebrating that today, and thank you all for the wonderful Birthday wishes on my wall ...you all are the best.

Today my daughter said she would make me breakfast in bed, and she picked rose peddles off of are rose bushes yesterday, and said she wanted to make me a rose peddle bath after breakfast...How sweet is that. My boys said that they would clean the whole house today, and do whatever I wanted them to do...I was joking with them yesterday and told them they could be my slave today, and do everything, cook, clean, and all the stuff I normally do.

I do not cook on my Birthday so I told them once the house is clean, and there done that we would go to lunch. I'm also taking my neighbor to the Bus station at 1:30 so that she can travel to see her mom, so it should be a great day today.

My daughter just woke up and gave me earrings my husband bought me.. diamond tear drop beautiful earrings, new nightgown, and a beautiful card...so sweet hes working all day so that was a nice surprise, and one piece of carrot cake my favorite, and crab legs for dinner...Yum

So yes it is already a beautiful wonderful day, have a great day everyone, and when you treat people the way that you want and deserve to be treated... it does come back to you 100 fold.

Peace and love Always Ursula

Tuesday, June 22, 2010

Fitness Quest

Good Morning,
Happy Tuesday the sun is coming out... lets see if it stays. I love early mornings when everyone is sleeping, and birds are singing it is so peaceful, sitting on the patio in my nightgown drinking coffee, and enjoying the beautiful roses all around my back yard, and talking to my wonderful friends, as if your right here with me.

Life is so full of blessings and gifts all around us we have so much to be grateful, and thankful for. miracles all around. If you take the time for silence, and slow down just a little bit, and start to see the beauty all around, and be grateful for everything then life just seems to get easier and better naturally.

This summer so far the kids and I haven't done a whole lot yet, but I can truly say that just being with them daily, has blessed my heart... they are all different and unique, and I Celebrate each one of there personalities, and it just works, and I'm so grateful everyday for having one more day with them.

I have dedicated my life to being the best mom I can be, and that's why now I'm on this fitness Quest to get in the best shape of my life, because sometimes moms get so busy with there kids that they forget about themselves...Which I have done, and then one day you look in the mirror and wonder... who that big person is staring back at you. Moms and Dads I can not stress this enough...YOU MUST Take Care Of yourself in order to be the best that you can be. Your kids deserve to have healthy fit parents. How can you give to them what they need if you have no energy, and don't feel good, and your kids must be fit as well.

When I take my hour down in my home Gym my kids are still sleeping most of the time, and It makes me feel amazing, and gives me the strength, and energy to get through the rest of the Day...You must figure out what works best for you whether Home gym, like I got, or Go to a gym..We all have to Exercise if we want to keep are looks, and Health there is no way around it, so you might as well surrender, and make it a life style change starting today. Muscle burns Fat Plus its a whole lot sexier than Fat. I have these wonderful bars I eat before I workout.. that turn Fat into Fuel, and of course healthy green drinks full of fruits, and veggies in the blender.

Tomorrow I am turning forty one, and I intend to be one of the healthiest fit fabulous feel good woman in there forty's out there... age is just a number Defy it, and put amazing organic wonderful fruits, and veggies in your body daily. When I wake up.. I have no pain or aches I feel young and youthful daily, and sometimes I act like my teens dancing around and acting crazy...fun crazy...I'm the cool mom as my daughter says...Be spontaneous, Laugh ...Live...Create healthy situations for yourself You can start today. I promise if you make these changes today... you will Defy your age too, And feel great doing it. Nobody wants to spend there life getting on prescription drugs and feeling sick if they don't have to. we have the power to stay healthy, and fit its up to us individually, and no one can make you do it, it has to be your choice for your life, I hope you will join me today on this exciting Journey of Fitness, and health and wellness. Do it for yourself and don't let anyone Else's bad choices stop you from having it all. get the book Suzanne Somers BREAKTHROUGH ...It will change your Life.
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Peace and Love Always, Ursula

Monday, June 21, 2010

healthy Choices

Good Morning,
wow, June is almost over and the weather has been so crazy, rain, and wind, it doesn't feel like summer yet, so hopefully July, And August will be better. Today as I look out the window I see cloudy skies, and Wind...ready for a change.

Cooked all day yesterday for Fathers Day. I hope everyone had a great Fathers day. Now I can focus on all Raw, and organic food for me, its so hard trying to eat that way everyday, and then having to make a big manly meal for your husband every night it would be so much easier if he would eat healthy as well, but he was raised a meat and potato man, and still loves to eat meat, and lots of it, so I just get to cook it for him, and do my best to stay on track eating healthy, and organic.

There is a lot of adjusting you have to do when you have a family, and you have to do things that you wouldn't have to do being single, when I was single I was a vegetarian, and now that I'm married I have to cook all kinds of food for five people so it is a big adjustment, but it is worth it. so many things change when you get married, you no longer just think of yourself, you start to think about the other person with whom you are sharing your life with, and that is the last thing you think of is food when you fall in love with someone you just want to make them happy, and then you get married and learn to cook food they like to make them happy, have kids, put on weight, and then look in the mirror, and wonder were did all the weight come from.

After having my three kids that happened to me and I really have to work hard and be careful what I eat, because the older you get the harder it is to get it off... if your not careful, and you must not ever eat like your husband, he can eat anything and stay thin, I cant. So learn your body, and put organic, raw foods in your body, and make a green shake in the morning after working out, and stay away from fatty meat, and processed foods, and work out everyday, mixing up your exercise routines, and resist the temptation to eat bad unhealthy foods, the more you do this the easier it gets.

It is a lifestyle change that you must do for yourself in order to be fit and fabulous as long as possible, I make this choice daily even though I have to cook my husband all these manly meals he likes... I get to choose not to eat them, and eat a salad or something healthy instead, and who knows maybe he will join me someday eating healthy, as well.

Peace, and Love Always, Ursula

Friday, June 18, 2010

Fathers Day

This is for Fathers Day weekend,
Happy Fathers Day Weekend to all you Fathers, and Men out there.
We Don't thank you enough for all you do, and being the strong loving men that you all are men express themselves so much different then us crazy woman, and yet we love are wonderful Father so much.

-Men are the strength that us woman need they help balance us.
-Men are powerful and strong and amazing
-Men are hard workers and great providers for there family
-Men also can be sensitive, and sweet
-Men are great Fathers
-Men need to be encouraged and feel loved and valued
-Men are great Leaders
-Men can fix anything and are not afraid of spider, or snakes, or anything and if they are they will not show you there weakness
-Men are very visual, and stick to the list men, they are hunters, and great lovers.
-Men are a Gift from God
There is so much more I could say but you get the idea of how great they are.


As I write these things down about men I think about my father this fathers day and think about how hard he worked and provided for our needs daily and he never complained he worked seven days a week in all weather conditions and still loved his family, and life. He treated my mom like a Queen... he was a true hero and a great wonderful loving father, he is no longer alive but the memories will be with me forever. Celebrate this fathers Day with your Father if he is still alive and create the happiest most wonderful memories you will cherish for a life time.

I get to celebrate with my husband who is a strong wonderful man that has rose to the challenge of being a leader of our home, and the greatest father ever, and I am blessed to have him as my husband loving and cherishing him along with my kids for as long as God allows.

Make this Fathers Day the greatest Fathers day ever, and make your Father feel like the King that he is...Loving, cherishing, adoring, and laughing forever, and ever... not just on Fathers Day, and let it all be about how much you Love and adore them, and always remember treat people the way that you want to be treated....It is a ripple affect and it will come back to you.

Peace and Love Always, Ursula

Thursday, June 17, 2010

Taking it day by day

Good Morning my Wonderful Friends,
We are almost done with a whole week of Summer Break and we are all starting to adjust to the Summer schedule which is basically whatever Schedule you like. My Boys are enjoying being home this week, DEVAN got a haircut he hates, so he has been hiding at home till it grows out, except he wanted to go to youth group last night, and then he had a friend stay the night.

Austin my oldest is just wanting to stay home as well so I know that will change soon, when I get some activities lined up for him,and my daughter on the other hand has to be busy all the time so she has been with friends everyday, and has had something going on all the time.

Yesterday it was just her and I we went shopping. I had some birthday money, and every year I go to TJMax and buy a new cool name brand purse, and a new wallet. Then we went to the duck pond so she could feed them some old bread, and then we walked on a trail, and the walking path along the river until it started raining. June has been a really cold month lots of rain and wind this year very strange...WE are ready for Hot weather before the summer is over.

So you see we have been just taking it day by day this week to see what we are in the mood to do...bowling and roller skating they love, and swimming when weather is nice..there is a lot to do and vacations to plan for.. never a dull moment being a mom that's for sure and then packing healthy lunch's when we do go out and lots of water.

I'm keeping my Blog first thing in the morning, and then working out as hard as I can for an Hour at home and then as many out door activities we can fit in...I'm ready to go hiking soon. and rafting as soon as weather gets Hot....Endless possibilities. Enjoy everyday with your kids they grow so fast mine are so tall and keep growing all the time so I want to create the best memories I can with them everyday and enjoy every second I have with them...I am the luckiest mom ever to have everyday with them the good the bad and the ugly it all works out. Be happy...Be Grateful, and live everyday to the fullest staying healthy, and fit and fabulous...You deserve to have the greatest life ever... you just get to create it. Don't be afraid to be child like and spontaneous.

Peace, and Love Always, Ursula

Wednesday, June 16, 2010

middle of the week

Good Morning,
Today is the middle of the week already one of my favorite days its get up early workout, take shower, get ready, and head to one of my favorite places the local Farmers Market they have everything healthy and wonderful for your body, so with that available every week...Why would I want to go to McDonald's or anywhere else, although it is nice to eat out once in awhile I just find it a lot healthier, and more affordable to cook for myself and my family, and that way I know exactly what I'm putting in my body.

You must be very careful what you are eating if your trying to get in shape you cant workout and then eat junk it doesn't work that way, unfortunately...In order to get the body you dream about, sexy arms, sexy abs, sexy butt, and legs... it takes a lot of work and discipline, and you must do different exercises all the time to trick your muscles into shape, I find the older I get the harder I must do this and do a lot of fast Burst exercises. Also another tip I always use when cooking for my family at dinner time is take a salad plate instead of a huge plate, and fill up the small salad plate instead of using the huge plates, smaller portions is the key...we don't need huge portions....small little meals all day...and when you go to a restaurant take half home.

It is attainable, and we all can do it and I want it bad so I am committed to do whatever it takes to make it happen for myself daily, until I get my morning workout done nothing else matters , because we have got to take care of this body that was given to us not just for vanity issues, but because we deserve to be healthy and fit and feel good everyday...Magic happens when you eat good and take your vitamins, and exercise you start to feel amazing and look amazing, and then people will start noticing and want to no your secret ...Fountain of Youth Secret that's what I say it is.

Live this life not only being a good person, and being positive and happy everyday but being healthy and fit and fabulous as well...WE can all do this it is attainable and can be done. Trust me Ive lived both ways not working out and working out, and its a whole lot easier taking great care of yourself than not....You can do it and I ENCOURAGE YOU TO WORKOUT EVERYDAY DOING SOMETHING ANYTHING JUST STAY MOVING. Stay healthy and fit and see how you will feel and when the pounds start coming off how excited you will be. now that Ive shared all of this I must go to my gym now, and practice what I preach.

Peace and Love always, Ursula

Tuesday, June 15, 2010

Get Healthy and Fit

Good Morning,
Tuesday is here already seems like the week is going fast, yesterday it was cleaning the house, and having company over for the puppies, and today we may go out and enjoy the sun, Brooke had a friend stay the night, so they will sleep in. I still like to get up early and enjoy the peace and quiet.

I made a new commitment to eat healthier, and workout more, and get my body in the best shape possible, I guess because I'm turning forty one this month...I want to defy my age as long as I can, and when you eat healthy and workout, you never feel as old as you are...So that is my goal pump up the weight training...and No excuses. I have a gym so there is no excuse not to be in great shape...Plus its swimming, and boating season.

The farmers Market is now open so I plan on going there at least a couple times a week and getting healthy fruits, and veggies, and eating as much raw foods as possible... I can do it. Hiking up mountains, and walking, and running next to the River as much as possible, and walking up my 17 percent grade hill...I plan on mixing it up this Summer so that I don't get bored working out, and including my kids as much as possible.

WE only get this one life so why would we want to waist it with bad choices for our self...I don't no about you but when I eat healthy, and workout I have energy through the roof like when I was twenty, and your happier, and your self esteem is better it just is a better life all together.

Make positive healthy choices for yourself, and your family today ...You deserve to be in the best health, and shape of your life...Lets try and get sexy arms, and sexy abs, and get in the best shape of your life lets motivate, and help each other, Please comment if you got any great Ideas that we can share together.

Peace, and Love, Always, Ursula

Monday, June 14, 2010

Summer Break

Good Morning,
First Monday of Summer break with three Teenagers home all Summer...You know what that means Lots of FOOD to prepare and eat. Its seems they can never get full at this age they are all skinny, and yet they put down food like they are not...How nice to eat like that and never gain weight, just grow taller.

we went to Dance performances all weekend for my daughter, and now its time to find some camps to keep them busy, and Austin a job. So he doesn't spend the whole Summer staying up all night and sleeping all day.

Its my job to keep them very busy and active this Summer, and to keep them out of trouble. The first week of summer break is always the hardest part and then after we get into a routine it seems to just Flow. The Chihuahua puppies are ready to go to there new homes this coming weekend...Which is great since we wont be home a lot they are cute but hard to potty train and keep locked up in there cage, because they wine and then my kids feel sorry for them and take them out of there cage, and accidents start to happen all over...not good, so they are ready to go to new home.

Today this afternoon we have a family that has five kids coming to look at the puppies, they have already seen them but the dad said no puppies so today they are bringing there dad hoping that he will also fall in love with one, so they can have one.

so good times and good fun is about to come daily... with lots of action going on. my daughter thinks she needs to be busy ever second of every hour, and my boys as long as they have food and video games, and computers they are great...so let the fun begin... summer fun is here and its starting to get... Hot... Hot... Hot.

Peace and Love, Always, Ursula

Wednesday, June 9, 2010

your purpose and passion

Good Morning,
Each day I never know what I'm going to write about... I just let it come out as I start to Type, and I trust that God is working through me to talk about whats going on with me, or Encouraging all of you to Live your life purpose, and follow the lead of your God.

I never dreamed that I would ever be a Blogger, but I actually enjoy it, and it is like Journaling, but only your telling who ever wants to read it. You never no if what you write will help a person, or touch someones Life, so I always want it to be uplifting, and healing for your Mind, Body, soul, and Spirit.

I follow my heart and passion Daily and allow God to guide and lead me in the right direction following the path that he has designed for me to follow, and when I don't take the time with him... I know it right away,because I begin to loose my Peace, and Love for Life.

No matter where you are in life its never to late to find that... Peace that surpasses all understanding, The kind That only God can give you. We can wake up everyday and create the best most Wonderful Life...And yes people will wonder what kind of Drugs your on because your always Happy and Positive, and that is from following your life purpose and Direction.

Have you ever had a job that you hated but stayed because you needed the money, and new it was not suppose to be were you were working, but scared to make the change until you didn't have a choice, and got fired , and then all of a sudden your at home staring at four walls saying"Now what God" And you are forced to surrender, and ask for help...That's what I'm talking about, and then you start to cry and ask for help and he is always there leading and guiding you to the place that you were suppose to be after all.

I finally surrendered In my life and all though its not always easy working at Home and putting my family first it is what I'm suppose to do now in my life, It may not always be my life purpose But for now it is ,and I have two great companies, I market, and Advertise for, it is time consuming but I do it from the comfort of my Home with No Boss , and work my own hours, and when I get tired of it and need face to face social time I call my girlfriends,and we have a girl day that is always the greatest.

Learning what your purpose in this life is... so important, and taking time for yourself, and making sure you always put yourself at the top of your to do list..you can wake up everyday not dreading your life but celebrating yourself, family, friends and the life that you get to create for yourself. when you have a bad or lonely Day write in a gratitude Journal and write about all the positive you have in your life, and how blessed you truly are....It works every time I promise...Do not isolate yourself make sure you spend quality time with like minded people that make you feel better just by being with them...If you don't feel better than you did before you were with them then maybe they are not a match for you..Find people that have the same interests, and Goals to help lift your spirit, find people you can Laugh with, and be free to be you with. Make today the greatest Day ever.

Peace and Love Always, Ursula

Tuesday, June 8, 2010

Healthy Life Style changes

Good Morning,
I got so much spring cleaning done yesterday windows inside and outside sparkle, there is nothing worse then dirty windows...I like when they shine and all the mirrors, and pictures do as well it makes you feel good and smells wonderful...Especially when you use all natural Organic cleaning products... I am so blessed one of my Home Businesses is a Wellness Company that has all Natural Organic Products....From head to toe this Company has you covered...Once you try there Products there is no going back to Nasty Store Bought Products...Full of bad chemicals and water.

I have been fortunate enough to keep mine and my family's Health great just by using all there products...It makes you feel good when your taking there Vitamins, taking all there fiber wise, and fat burning products.. why not look and feel younger than you already Do. works on the inside and outside..the makeup is the best Nicolle Miller is a... famous Fashion Clothing designer, and makeup expert from New York and she uses all natural Vitamins, and minerals in her products, and she loved the Company so much she decided to partner with them. I have people tell me all the time I look younger than I am...How great is that nobody wants to look there own age we all want to look younger, and feel better about are self, so why not use the best most affordable products out there, and then were proud to share are Age.


When you take care of yourself and family by using and eating Organic Products...How could you not feel good about yourself...WE only have one life... so eat great raw God foods and use healthy Natural Products...Get all the Bleach and formaldehyde out of your house, Exercise Daily, use everything that is Organic and Natural as possible...Lets Live this Life to the Fullest making daily Healthy life style choices for ourselves and are family.

I encourage you to make these changes in your life today..and see how much better you will feel and Look...You don't want to look like you've have a long painful Life.

Peace and Love Always, Ursula http://momswantmore.com/ursula

Monday, June 7, 2010

SUMMER

Good Morning,
UP early today couldn't sleep thinking about all that I want to get done while I'm by myself this week. starting next week my three Teenagers will be on there Summer Break, so you know what that means. Lots of Activities to plan to keep them busy and out of trouble, and lots of meal preparation daily.

They all know how to cook fairly well but prefer Mom to do most of it so I have decided to make a list for them to do daily, and we will all share the responsibilities like we do every Summer. My kids are growing so fast it still amazes me everyday that I have three teenagers...What was I thinking.

At least I will get it all over with at once, and them maybe I will still be young enough when they are all gone..that is if they can ever afford to move out, to travel and do some things for myself.
I do love being a mom and would not change it for anything, I just get to be real creative, and make it the best Summer ever. Set your expectations high for your kids.

Life is what you make it so make your life the greatest most rewarding life ever. Love God,and put him first, love yourself, family, and friends.... stay happy and well balanced and remember even though your kids are all home for the Summer... you must take the time to Nourish your soul and have a grateful heart...Be a good role model, because your kids will follow your lead whether you think they are or not they are wanting your guidance. Make everyday day as Peaceful as possible, and when you have bad days...Don't waste energy on thinking about it just move on tomorrow is a new day...Celebrate everyday to the fullest...Laughing, Loving, Staying in Peace, and I promise you... you will have the Greatest Summer ever...I am the luckiest mom in the world to share Summers with my Kids.

Peace, and Love Always, Ursula

Saturday, June 5, 2010

ALLOWING GOD

Good Morning,
You know when you have times in your Life that your walking according to Gods will and purpose and everything seems to be going peacefully, and then there are other times and seasons in your Life that you get so busy you forget to take the alone time to be with God and pray, and then before you know it Life seems to get harder...You seem more stressed...Bad things start to happen, and your not sure how to handle it because you haven't spent your alone time with God. See when bad things happen when your following Gods direction you handle it better.

I know for a fact when I start to get upset, or feel out of control or drained, and my soul gets empty, I go searching for the wrong kind of Love. the kind of Love that only God can give us.
On this Journey called Life we will have many seasons, and different times in our life's that we may stray away from God, and he will allow us to go through whatever it is we think we need to go through like a rebellious child, and then when we figure out that it is not working he will still be there for us, because he never left, and he has already forgiven you, you just get to forgive yourself, and move on.

no matter what trouble or situation you get yourself involved in it is never to much for you to come to God with he always has his arms open wide for you... He is your Father..The kind of father you have never felt before he is the only one that can give you unconditional Love, and has already forgiven you before you even ask for forgiveness...So why would we want to stray from that kind of Love...You ask Because we all think that we have are own answer and we can do it better by our self and that we are independent, and we don't need to take the time to hear Gods voice.

I'm here to tell you that I have tryed it both ways and the times that I get into the most trouble, and get sad ,and don't own my power and allow other people to choice my life choices for me are the times that I feel like giving up and running away from it all is because I am nothing without God in my Life.

This week for me has been getting back on track and stop running from the things that I cannot change, and getting back to that child like spirit, and allowing my little girl to ask God to come back into my life and heal my mind, body , spirit, Soul,and start over today is a new day and its never to late to start over God is always with you... all you have to do is ask him to come back to your heart, and allow him to heal you during quit times with him, and then start to watch miracles happen in your life... it is that simple.

I am allowing today and this day forward to let God lead me and guide me he is my tour guide, and accepting things I cannot change. I am discovering my gifts, and Purpose all over again and it makes me excited to know that there are endless possibilities just waiting for me. God will open the door for you... but you must take the action steps to get there he will not do it for you.

Peace, and Love always, Ursula

Friday, June 4, 2010

LIFE

Good Morning,
This week has been an incredible breakthrough week for me. I have been allowing myself to feel emotions that I have had stuffed down in my heart for a long time, putting on a happy face, and acting like everything is wonderful, so this week I have been writing a lot about Love, and quiet time and Peacefulness. So I decided since this is a quit raining nothing to do outside week, what if I allowed myself to hear that voice inside myself.

So much has came out for me this week I realized yesterday that I have been keeping myself so busy that I have not been practicing everything I talk about. staying busy, rushing from situation to situation not allowing what I deserve to prosper in my life and making bad life changing choices for myself.

Something happens when you allow yourself to check out of life for awhile to discover, are you really loving yourself like you think you are? are you really living your life purpose and Passion ? are you making responsible choices for yourself and your family?

You Know I thought I was but I had allowed certain distractions to come into my life that took away from my goals and Passion for life. WE will have many distraction that are not the best choices for our self we have to learn to desifer the good from the bad. Don't let any other person determine your purpose, and destiny.

Just because your married, and have kids does not mean that you have to change your whole life for them and loose yourself in the process ...Hold on to what is in your heart, and hold on to what you Love, and if your not sure what you love or what your purpose is than Like me start Journeying, write down the simple things you love get back to the child like spirit you had when you were a child before life started Lifing and you built up so many walls.

Discover how to laugh and play again... before you made life so hard, that is what I have dedicated this week to do before my kids are done with school and I have to say I had a huge painful breakthrough yesterday, and Today I know that by allowing my purpose, and discovering new a excited possibilities to enter my life and allowing the walls to fall... that this is the new beginning that I have been longing for to happen.

Life is what we make it and we only have one life to live... so make it a great exciting fulfilling. passionate Life, a life that makes you smile,no one else can create that for you , You have to do it for yourself and when you allow yourself to follow the peace that is in your heart everything will fall into place for yourself and you will have the life of LOVE that you want and deserve and nobody will be able to take that from you.

Peace, and Love Always, Ursula

Thursday, June 3, 2010

MOMS

Good Morning,
Thursday is already here can you believe how fast the weeks go by. Everyday I think Ive got the whole day to get so many things done, and most days I do but right now I have three baby Chihuahuas that I'm feeding and potty training... they are three weeks so I have another three weeks to go before they will be sold.

That is a big job taking care of three puppy's, and making sure they go on a potty pad instead of your nice carpets. Soon the rain will stop, and I will be able to take them outside more. They are very adorable, and loving just lots of extra things to add to my daily list.

The way I look at it is If I get to workout, and take a shower daily... then life is great, and then everything else just seems to fall in place, Work , cleaning, taxi service for my kids, bookkeeper, cook, gardener, and on and on.

Do you realize how many Hats that we fill everyday being a Mom we are such great multi taskers, and I don't even think we realize how much we get done in a day, because we are so use to just making it happen, and keeping the family running smoothly. It makes me tired thinking about all the hats I fill on a daily basis.

So you can now see why it is so important for us moms to take care of ourselves, and take are quiet time first thing in the morning, and have are exercise time, and then once are cup is full then and only then can we do what we need to do. You cant have a empty cup and expect for it to fill you up.

Moms never think its selfish to lock yourself in the bathroom or bedroom for awhile when you feel overwhelmed or feel you've reached your limit..Its better to put yourself in a time out then to yell at the kids or do something you may regrets...SELFISH EQUALS SELF CARE...

TAKE many deep breaths daily and focus on filling your cup and soul up , and then focus on Gratitude, and peace, and Love and trust me Lady's you will be able to have the strength to move Mountains and anything that comes your way you will be able to handle...Please don't forget to put yourself at the top of your to do list.

You are most important... if mom is not running the house the house will fall or any stay at home dads this is for you too. Being a full time at home parent is the hardest and most rewarding job in the World, and you don't get the credit or money you deserve..So you must reward yourself as much as possible. I'm taking a girl day today to do what I love, and then when I come home I will be refreshed and ready to do it all again.

Peace , and Love Always, Ursula

Wednesday, June 2, 2010

Difference between LIKE and LOVE

Good Morning,
I had Someone ask me whats the Difference between like and Love...How will you know the Difference? I can only share from my Heart what I feel the difference is.

Like is something that most people have and have only experienced and nothing else.



-I like my job
- I like myself
-I like my kids and husband
-I like my house
-I like my life
-I like my neighbor
-I like my friends
-I like everything I have
-I like everything without any passion or knowing I deserve more just settling for what you have without making things better and more alive... and on and on the list could be.

We are all searching for the Love that only God himself can give us, We rush from place to place searching for Something that is going to make us happy...Bigger House, More money, better relationships, nicer car, Rushing ,stressing, worrying, and just getting by with bad choices that are just OK you just like life, but have not discovered what Love truly is. there are people that go through there whole life not knowing what true Love really is...How sad.

LOVE is what everyone is looking for, and is the only thing that will ever make you happy, The only way you can discover true Authentic Spiritual Love is through God or your Higher power what ever you want to call it. its allowing yourself daily to take the quiet time you need every morning, and allowing that still small voice inside yourself to guide and lead you. Then and only then can you learn to live a Life Loving yourself the way that God loves you.

If you allow this to happen in your Life I promise you will live a life of true Authentic Love and you will attract that back into your life, and people will know that you are truly coming and living through your... Peace, Love , and Joy...Your eyes are the window to your soul, so when you look into peoples eyes you will know the difference between a dead soul and, a soul that has Love. Ive had people say to me that my eyes sparkle with Love.

After all isn't that what we are all searching for is true Authentic Love within, and Finding Love in what we do daily, and Living a life that is so peaceful, and incredible...Without all the stuff, and hiding from our self. we deserve to have true Love and find true Love in everything we say and do.

Look in the mirror daily, and tell yourself how much you Love yourself, and let your inside match your outside, by taking great care of yourself exercises, eating healthy foods, dressing for Success, even if your home. I wear dresses even when I'm home, because I am a successful Business Woman... even though I work from home. My husband wants to come home a see a beautiful wife not a wife that doesn't Love herself or take care of herself. Be the Light in this dark world...let your light shine bright daily.

These are simple and attainable goals that we can all do starting today. Make your Life a life of LOVE not LIKE...LOVE is the answer to all are problems. Love will set you free and allow yourself to forgive the people that have hurt you , and allow you to take the steps to make the greatest most fantastic, life that you cant even imagine possible...Try it today ...I love myself and I LOVE all of you my Wonderful BLOG readers. Please feel free to comment whenever you want, and share some feedback.

Peace and LOVE Always, URSULA

Tuesday, June 1, 2010

long weekend over

Good Morning,
Wow... it was a long Holiday weekend with bad weather. I was so grateful that we choose to stay home instead of camping like the rest of the people. that always do on Memorial weekend. the thought of three kids, husband and dogs all in a tent all weekend, because it rained all weekend was not the kind of weekend I wanted, so we stayed home to do what we want.

It worked out great streamed in movies on the Wii, and PlayStation3 and went to the movies. I saw Sex and the City 2 and family saw Iron man 2. I left the movies feeling Happy and excited there is nothing like a good chick flick to get you through the rest of the day. I have to say I was dreaming about being at that magical vacation they were on all day the beautiful beaches and the beautiful blue waters.. it looked magical. I am craving a trip on the beach some where... it is time.

I made many meals of course when you have a family of five that is a lot of meals to cook. So today I'm ready to have my alone time. I'm taking my kids to School husbands at work and everything is back to normal until June 11 and then three teenagers are home for the summer let the fun begin. Lots of swimming, hiking, and adventures, I intend to do as many physical activities as possible to wear them out, and to keep us all fit and healthy. Of course we will have to go to the Ocean for sure this summer.

I'm Celebrating Life daily the good the bad and the not so good, because when you do that and continue to focus on the Light... things just keep on getting better. I intend to live my life to the fullest every single day... Celebrating my Health, and my family's, and being the best that I can be sharing my light and Sparkle with the world. Make today and everyday the best day you can celebrate each day... as it could be your last with no regrets.

Peace and love always, Ursula