Sunday, June 27, 2010

Being a Parent

Good Morning my Wonderful Friends,
This morning I'm sitting and reflecting on all the Beauty around me Beautiful people, Beautiful yards and gardens, and just simply focusing on all the wonderful beauty all around, and attracting more to my life.

I talk a lot about positive living because, I feel that is the key to success when you focus on all the positive then there is no room for negative thoughts, and feelings to be there. What you focus on is what you will attract, I choose daily to attract positive people, positive health and wellness, Laughing and living life to the fullness no matter what.

We all have choices how and what we are going to do with are life's..Living how we choose, creating what we want and then taking the action steps to achieve what we say we want. Setting goals achieving Goals, and making abundance lists of what you want in life.

When I have quite times like this my mind fills with all things that are possible if we believe...Believe and achieve. Being a wife and a mom is one of the hardest most unappreciated jobs in the world, and yet it can also be the most rewarding jobs in the world. When times get tough and you feel devalued or unappreciated...Look inside yourself for guidance..we as parents will have bad days, and good days so when you have a bad day don't give up and run just allow yourself to feel your feeling if you need alone time lock yourself in a room, and then come out after you have felt your feelings.

Moms and dads have the toughest job in the world trying to make sure you guide and lead your child in the right direction and then praying that teen years they will remember everything you taught them. My oldest is fifteen and hes in the" I know it all years..Getting girl crazy thinking he can do whatever he wants" The teen years... I don't think anyone can prepair us for these times, we just have to take it one day at a time, and when they screw up, because they all will make poor choices once in awhile. we have to remember its all Life lessons that they must go through to develop there character, and who they choose to be, and them as parents its our job to pray for them daily, and trust that the teen years will pass, and they will be wonderful adults soon.

We do not know what the future holds for are children or ourselves we just get to trust daily and pray for ourselves friends and family, and pray that everything will be exactly the way its suppose to be daily, and all are needs are met today, and that is all we need to focus on is day to day.

Please don't waist anytime worrying about the future or anything you cant change its just wasted energy..Everything is going to be alright, and yes if you have teens like me you will make it through even if you think you cannot make it one more day..I'm here to tell you... yes you can and God will not give you more than you can handle day by day...Trust God...Trust what you have instilled into your children's life, and be the Role model they need to see...Guide and lead with Love,and always listen and allow your children to have a voice, and keep your communication strong even when you feel like " who is this Kid " trust me fifteen you will wonder who this kid your talking to is.
make today and everyday great..make the best out of every situation, and find a good support system when your going through difficult times.

Peace and Love Always, Ursula

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