What do you do after eighteen years of marriage well I'm breaking out all my secrets today .You never know when you tell too much but I also feel that how can we learn, and grow from each other if we don't share, and then the confirmation came from a friend of mine that has been married forever as well and she said Ursula You need to talk more about bringing out your sexy like you do in your workout videos ...So I say GREAT this is what I Love to talk about I swear I would love to be a Doctor Ruth or a Match maker, because I feel I have a gift to talk to people about sex openly but you must be careful not to give people the wrong ideas...
For me its about making your marriages come Alive every single Day To fall in Love everyday, and yes being married is hard, and challenging and anytime you put two people together that come from such different life's and then say Now Get along...YEAH RIGHT ... it takes daily work and its not all easy there have been many times in our now eighteen years of marriage that I wanted to walk away and be single again . But of course what draws us to continue to work it out is your Children and your faith that's what keeps you fighting for your marriage even through the tough times, and realizing the grass is not greener somewhere else, because where ever you go You will always have daily challenges that's just life so as long as your both willing to do the work it takes and YES it does take both of you willing to do the daily work than it can work, and than when the kids are raised you wont be looking at this person your with going..." who are you and now what" because you haven't connected through the years so many marriages get so wrapped up in there kids that they forget the one they fell in love with to get those kids.
I say Take everyday and focus on all the Good your partner does rather than what they don't do don't get stuck on them being messy or leaving there socks on the floor and Petty stuff that really doesn't matter the more you focus on there greatness the more they become great and the more you fall in love everyday...
Be the Girlfriend ...be the boyfriend why do you think people cheat its because they miss the Flirting and the sweet words and the SEX the great SEX that they loved and why they married ...Woman marry there man expecting to change them and men marry there wife thinking they wont change and guess what they both get disappointed and resentment comes and SEX leaves.
So My secret to a healthy happy loving marriage is Flirt everyday, have SEX as much as possible, and tell each other you Love them everyday and be the boyfriend and Girlfriend daily with kissing hugging, and lots of Creativity in all areas of the marriage surprise each other and Do what the other one Loves even if you don't require it....See things through there eyes and value and love there uniqueness...Men need Food and Sex...and woman need emotional support and to feel valued and loved like a Queen...Cheers to all the happy marriages I pray that my story can give you ideas and re spark the lovemaking in the world. GOD First, Spouse then Kids...Quality of an amazing healthy happy life sent to you.
Peace and Love Always, Ursula
For me its about making your marriages come Alive every single Day To fall in Love everyday, and yes being married is hard, and challenging and anytime you put two people together that come from such different life's and then say Now Get along...YEAH RIGHT ... it takes daily work and its not all easy there have been many times in our now eighteen years of marriage that I wanted to walk away and be single again . But of course what draws us to continue to work it out is your Children and your faith that's what keeps you fighting for your marriage even through the tough times, and realizing the grass is not greener somewhere else, because where ever you go You will always have daily challenges that's just life so as long as your both willing to do the work it takes and YES it does take both of you willing to do the daily work than it can work, and than when the kids are raised you wont be looking at this person your with going..." who are you and now what" because you haven't connected through the years so many marriages get so wrapped up in there kids that they forget the one they fell in love with to get those kids.
I say Take everyday and focus on all the Good your partner does rather than what they don't do don't get stuck on them being messy or leaving there socks on the floor and Petty stuff that really doesn't matter the more you focus on there greatness the more they become great and the more you fall in love everyday...
Be the Girlfriend ...be the boyfriend why do you think people cheat its because they miss the Flirting and the sweet words and the SEX the great SEX that they loved and why they married ...Woman marry there man expecting to change them and men marry there wife thinking they wont change and guess what they both get disappointed and resentment comes and SEX leaves.
So My secret to a healthy happy loving marriage is Flirt everyday, have SEX as much as possible, and tell each other you Love them everyday and be the boyfriend and Girlfriend daily with kissing hugging, and lots of Creativity in all areas of the marriage surprise each other and Do what the other one Loves even if you don't require it....See things through there eyes and value and love there uniqueness...Men need Food and Sex...and woman need emotional support and to feel valued and loved like a Queen...Cheers to all the happy marriages I pray that my story can give you ideas and re spark the lovemaking in the world. GOD First, Spouse then Kids...Quality of an amazing healthy happy life sent to you.
You are so very sexy!!!!!
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