reationships

Good Morning,
today I want to talk about relationships, whether you are married,. Dating, or living together.
Whatever it took to get the the person your with is what it will take to keep them.
remember when you first met the person your with..How excited and nervous, all at the same time, and how you couldn't wait to see them, and here there voice. How handsome, and how pretty you thought that they were.

Well that's what I'm talking about. You start a relationship not knowing anything about what its going to take to keep the sparks flying, and then you may have some kids, and a job, and soon more responsibilities... that your not sure how to balance. then if your not careful you may start fighting over things, that are not that bad, but you get frustrated because your plate is full, and as the kids get older you are running here there, and everywhere.

Do you want to no a secret...Whatever it took to get the person that you Love is what it will take to keep them regardless of how many things that change in your life. You need to take great care of yourself just like you did when you first met them..remember how you took your time to exercise, shave, get all dressed up, and smell good...well that's what I'm talking about.

Just because you have been with a person for alot of years does not mean that you can stop trying to be all that you can be, Your spouse does not want you to be home all day with the kids, and look like you just woke up, with your hair a mess, and your ugliest close on, and complaining about how bad your day was....Because guess what they are not going to want to come home to that.

Its your responsibility to take great care of yourself even when you have found your perfect match. Exercise daily, Eat healthy food, and if you are a stay at home mom or dad make sure that you look in the mirror at yourself before your spouse gets home, and fix your hair, put some makeup on for the women and dress up once in awhile. Don't be so predictable...Step out of the box once in awhile. Men are very visual, and hunters...Give them something great to stare at once in awhile, and hunt for. LOL.

I can only talk about my experience with being married for sixteen years, and I know from my life that this works, and keeps your husband happy, and interested. I work from home so most of the day I'm in workout close, but I tell you before my kids and husband get home I take a shower and pull my self together, dress nice,put makeup on, and curl my hair, and we have lots of alone time to keep are marriage alive..we are best friends, and lovers.

choose some things that you can do today to keep your relationships strong, and alive, so that when the kids are grown your not looking at your partner going who is this person...don't just be roommate's keep your love alive and connect as much as possible.

Peace and Love Always, Ursula