GOOD morning,
The weekend is over, It was a great family weekend, full of shampooing carpets, and cleaning and organizing... Which has to be done to keep your house looking and smelling good. I love how my family pitches in, and does what needs to be done.
Today the basement is clean, and ready for new furniture to be delivered today. Its always nice to get something new every once in awhile. We are getting everything nice, ready for a big Superbowl party, and just for us to enjoy.
It amazes me how fast life goes by its nice to just hang out with my family, and enjoy them... Or I should say cook for them. Teenagers are always hungry. Enjoy your day to day do something wonderful for yourself. Its time to exercise now, before the furniture gets here. Have a great Day.
To assist myself and you for change through lots of Love and taking you on a diary of how I do my life
Monday, November 16, 2009
Wednesday, November 11, 2009
Wednesday
Good Morning,
Happy Veterans Day, to all the Veterans. Today is a day to remember the Veterans.
It is also a day off for Schools, and different businesses.
Today for us as a family... its about a day home spoiling all five of our puppy's, cleaning, feeding them, and my children, and of course potty training puppy's. I feel like I have a house full of toddlers. We keep busy all the time so when we get a day like today to not be scheduled its a great feeling...My kids like to stay in there pajamas, play on the computer, eat of course, and spoil the puppy's, or should I say let them bite them.
Tomorrow is my friends day a day for me to get out of the house, since I work from home. I get to spend great quality time with my friends, that mean so much to me, and that is how I take great care of myself, along with everything else I always talk about, exercise, eating right, and plenty of sleep. Being a mom doesn't mean that you have to neglect yourself. Being a great mom includes taking great care of yourself daily, so I encourage you all to have a great day, and a great week, remember to put yourself on your to do list... You deserve it.
Happy Veterans Day, to all the Veterans. Today is a day to remember the Veterans.
It is also a day off for Schools, and different businesses.
Today for us as a family... its about a day home spoiling all five of our puppy's, cleaning, feeding them, and my children, and of course potty training puppy's. I feel like I have a house full of toddlers. We keep busy all the time so when we get a day like today to not be scheduled its a great feeling...My kids like to stay in there pajamas, play on the computer, eat of course, and spoil the puppy's, or should I say let them bite them.
Tomorrow is my friends day a day for me to get out of the house, since I work from home. I get to spend great quality time with my friends, that mean so much to me, and that is how I take great care of myself, along with everything else I always talk about, exercise, eating right, and plenty of sleep. Being a mom doesn't mean that you have to neglect yourself. Being a great mom includes taking great care of yourself daily, so I encourage you all to have a great day, and a great week, remember to put yourself on your to do list... You deserve it.
Tuesday, November 10, 2009
Good Morning,
Today is a day of taking care of puppy's again. They have learned to whine now, they want to get out of there cage, and party. We have one sold, and four to go. this week seems to be going by so fast, Tomorrow is a holiday, so the kids have a day off of School so Lola are girl puppy gets to go to her new home.... she is already spoiled pink bed, clothes, special food, and a little girl that is excited for her for her birthday...Its going to be great for both of them.
I cant believe that Thanksgiving is approaching us, and the stores are already playing Christmas music. I guess you cant blame them for starting early. The older your kids get the more expensive the gifts get, and they seem to get smaller, and more money.
When the weather gets colder it seems to stay harder to stay positive, because of the cloudy gloomy days, So I encourage myself, and you to keep working out, and get plenty of vitamins,and minerals, and lots of fruits, veggies, and surround yourself with positive people, stay away from the people that want to bring you down, because some days its hard enough to stay positive let alone being with people that are negative. I love to be with my good friends, because that always helps lift my spirits, laughing, and talking is the best medicine... Focus on the positive in your life not the negative. I know I have been struggling with this having so much going on in my life with kids, puppy's, activities, work, and on and on. You can really drive yourself crazy before long. Take a deep breath, start a gratitude Journal write all the things your thankful for, and before long your spirits will be lifted. Only focus on today "God will only give us what we can handle daily" All are needs are met today." GOD is never late, never early but never late. Have a great day everyone, and remember don't fall into the winter Blues, take great care of yourself always, Ursula
Today is a day of taking care of puppy's again. They have learned to whine now, they want to get out of there cage, and party. We have one sold, and four to go. this week seems to be going by so fast, Tomorrow is a holiday, so the kids have a day off of School so Lola are girl puppy gets to go to her new home.... she is already spoiled pink bed, clothes, special food, and a little girl that is excited for her for her birthday...Its going to be great for both of them.
I cant believe that Thanksgiving is approaching us, and the stores are already playing Christmas music. I guess you cant blame them for starting early. The older your kids get the more expensive the gifts get, and they seem to get smaller, and more money.
When the weather gets colder it seems to stay harder to stay positive, because of the cloudy gloomy days, So I encourage myself, and you to keep working out, and get plenty of vitamins,and minerals, and lots of fruits, veggies, and surround yourself with positive people, stay away from the people that want to bring you down, because some days its hard enough to stay positive let alone being with people that are negative. I love to be with my good friends, because that always helps lift my spirits, laughing, and talking is the best medicine... Focus on the positive in your life not the negative. I know I have been struggling with this having so much going on in my life with kids, puppy's, activities, work, and on and on. You can really drive yourself crazy before long. Take a deep breath, start a gratitude Journal write all the things your thankful for, and before long your spirits will be lifted. Only focus on today "God will only give us what we can handle daily" All are needs are met today." GOD is never late, never early but never late. Have a great day everyone, and remember don't fall into the winter Blues, take great care of yourself always, Ursula
Monday, November 9, 2009
Monday
Good Monday Morning,
WOW, What a weekend thats what I have to say right off the bat. IT all started On Thursday evening getting crazy. I had a wonderful day with my friends, and then I picked up my son from High School and he was white as a ghost, and I said whats wrong Austin and said he was sick.Of course he got sick everywhere when he got home.Thank God we own a carpet shampooer. He for some reason has been getting every virus out there.
I get a call from my mom saying she got two tea cup Chihuahuas from the paper, and you have to understand... she has Three huge dogs already in a little house, so for her to get two little dogs makes no sense. She said she wanted me to come see them, and take them to my house and sale them for her. Her big dogs were afraid of them, and would not come in her house, can you imagine Three huge dogs being afraid of two tiny Chihuahuas. So AT first I told my mom... No I did not want them, and Then I told my daughter who is a Chihuahua lover what was going on and she said "mom lets just go see them." We get there, and they are eight weeks old, and they were so tiny with big belly's, that of course we felt like we needed to bring them home. because My mom has no way of taking care of them with her dogs. So now I already have my three puppy's that are ready for there new homes this weekend, now I have two more to sale that are a smaller tea cup that have been starved it looks like, when I put the puppy chow in the bowl they attack it so I'm going to keep them for a week to get them healthy. Now we have another problem my kids are wanting to keep these two new little girls , To breed with my male Chihuahua. the ones we got from my mom. I have potty pads all over trying to potty train the new puppy's, and I have the new puppy's downstairs, and our puppy's upstairs in a cage. I guess you could call us the crazy Chihuahua family. My kids think that this is wonderful having all these puppy's... so if anyone wants a Chihuahua puppy contact me right away. Have a great day and again do something wonderful for yourself, Today and always.
WOW, What a weekend thats what I have to say right off the bat. IT all started On Thursday evening getting crazy. I had a wonderful day with my friends, and then I picked up my son from High School and he was white as a ghost, and I said whats wrong Austin and said he was sick.Of course he got sick everywhere when he got home.Thank God we own a carpet shampooer. He for some reason has been getting every virus out there.
I get a call from my mom saying she got two tea cup Chihuahuas from the paper, and you have to understand... she has Three huge dogs already in a little house, so for her to get two little dogs makes no sense. She said she wanted me to come see them, and take them to my house and sale them for her. Her big dogs were afraid of them, and would not come in her house, can you imagine Three huge dogs being afraid of two tiny Chihuahuas. So AT first I told my mom... No I did not want them, and Then I told my daughter who is a Chihuahua lover what was going on and she said "mom lets just go see them." We get there, and they are eight weeks old, and they were so tiny with big belly's, that of course we felt like we needed to bring them home. because My mom has no way of taking care of them with her dogs. So now I already have my three puppy's that are ready for there new homes this weekend, now I have two more to sale that are a smaller tea cup that have been starved it looks like, when I put the puppy chow in the bowl they attack it so I'm going to keep them for a week to get them healthy. Now we have another problem my kids are wanting to keep these two new little girls , To breed with my male Chihuahua. the ones we got from my mom. I have potty pads all over trying to potty train the new puppy's, and I have the new puppy's downstairs, and our puppy's upstairs in a cage. I guess you could call us the crazy Chihuahua family. My kids think that this is wonderful having all these puppy's... so if anyone wants a Chihuahua puppy contact me right away. Have a great day and again do something wonderful for yourself, Today and always.
Wednesday, November 4, 2009
Good Morning,
My husband has been sick all week with body aches and flu like symtoms..which has been really hard for him to get to work, and work ten hours, so hopefully he will be better soon,and the family doesnt get it.
The leaves are falling down and its getting very cold here, kids are staying very active, and busy and there is always something going on it seems. Tomorrow is my friends day that I take a day off of work for everyweek, last week it didnt workout because of my sons doctor appointment. I am definitely ready for some fun, and laughter.... with great friends. It seems to balance the week alot better. Moms need some time for themselves, we are always giving to everyone else all the time, you have to give back to yourself or you will burn yourself out, and will not have anything else to give. So I encourage all the moms out there to find some wonderful like minded people, and meet with them for some fun whenever you can. Men as well need there guy time it is therapeutic,for all of us. I talk alot about a balanced life that included putting yourself on your to do list, because most moms out there get so busy fixing, and taking care of everyone around them that they forget that in order to take care of everything... you first have to take care of number one....You. It took me along time to realize this for myself "selfish equals self care" Moms in order to stay healthy you have to workout at least five times a week, and eat healthy meals, and have lots of laughter, and people will start wanting what you have, and its that simple, and then and only then can you ... be a great wife, mother, and friend. so I encourage you to put yourself at the top of your to do list today. Have a great day.
My husband has been sick all week with body aches and flu like symtoms..which has been really hard for him to get to work, and work ten hours, so hopefully he will be better soon,and the family doesnt get it.
The leaves are falling down and its getting very cold here, kids are staying very active, and busy and there is always something going on it seems. Tomorrow is my friends day that I take a day off of work for everyweek, last week it didnt workout because of my sons doctor appointment. I am definitely ready for some fun, and laughter.... with great friends. It seems to balance the week alot better. Moms need some time for themselves, we are always giving to everyone else all the time, you have to give back to yourself or you will burn yourself out, and will not have anything else to give. So I encourage all the moms out there to find some wonderful like minded people, and meet with them for some fun whenever you can. Men as well need there guy time it is therapeutic,for all of us. I talk alot about a balanced life that included putting yourself on your to do list, because most moms out there get so busy fixing, and taking care of everyone around them that they forget that in order to take care of everything... you first have to take care of number one....You. It took me along time to realize this for myself "selfish equals self care" Moms in order to stay healthy you have to workout at least five times a week, and eat healthy meals, and have lots of laughter, and people will start wanting what you have, and its that simple, and then and only then can you ... be a great wife, mother, and friend. so I encourage you to put yourself at the top of your to do list today. Have a great day.
Tuesday, November 3, 2009
Marriages
Good Morning,
Today I feel refreshed, and blessed, This month is one of my favorite months it is the anniversary of my husband, and I . Sixteen years ago on November nineteenth I married the love of my life, not knowing how long it would last , but praying that it would be forever, we had three wonderful kids together, and have had alot of ups and downs in are marriage...which we all do and it takes alot of work to keep your marriage strong. We have done this with no babysitter, and no help from family, and yet we managed to keep are friendship, and love alive. For sixteen years, and that makes me feel abundant, and very happy. You have to remember that when you have children there are many distractions that come with being a mom. I believe if you put God first, husband, yourself, and your kids next, that it will workout if you and your husband are on the same page. Don't get me wrong its not always easy, but... you can do it. It makes me so proud that we both get to be best friends, lovers, and the best parents we can possible be.
Both my husband and I come from very dis functional family's, so we are like the blind leading the blind when it comes to a healthy family. We have had to learn as we go, and focus on whats working, and not whats not working, and learn from are mistakes, and realize we are not perfect no one is, and do the best that we can possible do day by day. I feel like being home with my kids has made a huge difference in my kids life they know I will always be there for them, and that they can count on me no matter what, and that are communication is strong, they can tell me anything no matter what, and I will not judge them. I will help them, and guide them in the right direction. So for everyone that is in a marriage right now you have the power to make it strong. There are so many divorces. Its so hard on your kids so if there is anyway you can save your marriage do everything you can, don't give up seek counseling or whatever you need. Have a great Day, and go on a date night right away, and do not talk about your kids at all. When your kids grow up you still want to have a connection with your spouse, so work hard now, and you will still be in love with your spouse, when your kids are raised.
Today I feel refreshed, and blessed, This month is one of my favorite months it is the anniversary of my husband, and I . Sixteen years ago on November nineteenth I married the love of my life, not knowing how long it would last , but praying that it would be forever, we had three wonderful kids together, and have had alot of ups and downs in are marriage...which we all do and it takes alot of work to keep your marriage strong. We have done this with no babysitter, and no help from family, and yet we managed to keep are friendship, and love alive. For sixteen years, and that makes me feel abundant, and very happy. You have to remember that when you have children there are many distractions that come with being a mom. I believe if you put God first, husband, yourself, and your kids next, that it will workout if you and your husband are on the same page. Don't get me wrong its not always easy, but... you can do it. It makes me so proud that we both get to be best friends, lovers, and the best parents we can possible be.
Both my husband and I come from very dis functional family's, so we are like the blind leading the blind when it comes to a healthy family. We have had to learn as we go, and focus on whats working, and not whats not working, and learn from are mistakes, and realize we are not perfect no one is, and do the best that we can possible do day by day. I feel like being home with my kids has made a huge difference in my kids life they know I will always be there for them, and that they can count on me no matter what, and that are communication is strong, they can tell me anything no matter what, and I will not judge them. I will help them, and guide them in the right direction. So for everyone that is in a marriage right now you have the power to make it strong. There are so many divorces. Its so hard on your kids so if there is anyway you can save your marriage do everything you can, don't give up seek counseling or whatever you need. Have a great Day, and go on a date night right away, and do not talk about your kids at all. When your kids grow up you still want to have a connection with your spouse, so work hard now, and you will still be in love with your spouse, when your kids are raised.
Monday, November 2, 2009
Good Morning,
The weekend was great. We had are Halloween party... which was alot of fun Adults dancing, and acting crazy, everyone needs to let there hair down once in awhile. Trick or treating with my daughter, and boys doing there own thing this year with there friends. It reminds me of how fast they are growing.
Today is back to normal, no more party's for awhile. Just got my workout done, and I'm enjoying the peace and quiet. The new puppy's are starting to get active, and very cute they are ready for there new loving homes November 21. So if you no anyone that would love a cute Chihuahua puppy let me know. My daughter said to me this morning that we need to have a puppy shower and invite all her friends over.
Have a great day everyone enjoy yourself, and remember do something great fro yourself today.
The weekend was great. We had are Halloween party... which was alot of fun Adults dancing, and acting crazy, everyone needs to let there hair down once in awhile. Trick or treating with my daughter, and boys doing there own thing this year with there friends. It reminds me of how fast they are growing.
Today is back to normal, no more party's for awhile. Just got my workout done, and I'm enjoying the peace and quiet. The new puppy's are starting to get active, and very cute they are ready for there new loving homes November 21. So if you no anyone that would love a cute Chihuahua puppy let me know. My daughter said to me this morning that we need to have a puppy shower and invite all her friends over.
Have a great day everyone enjoy yourself, and remember do something great fro yourself today.
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