Traveling with teens

Good Afternoon,
Finally back from my trip, and making time to write we had such a great mini Vacation at Silverwood.... There is so much to do there so many scary rides, and a big Boulder Beach water park kid and parent heaven. We packed in so much during are time there trying to see all, and do all that even the kids got exhausted. Great to bring the camera to capture as much as possible because one day god willing they will all be gone. We get at the hotel with three teens and there all techno junkies including me, so we got one with the laptop, one with the cable,me with my cell, and my daughter that is always planning more fun swimming, and my oldest that is a night owl and never wants to go to bed....FUN VACATION....LOL....THE JOYS OF PARENTING.

By the end they were yelling at me mom stop taking pictures... You are driving us crazy..but when we get home there grateful I took them and wish there was more of them on the rides. Life is such an adventure full of new things and possibilities daily. this week the two younger kids started School but my oldest is still home and his court is scheduled for tomorrow instead of today... like we thought. So we rushed over there for nothing today.

Tomorrow we will have both of his cases reduced, and hopefully move on from that, and he will make better choices. Sometimes you must learn the hard way before you finally take the right path, and teens think they know it all so the path to good takes awhile, while there hormones are raging, and there so trying to impress there friends they lose track of who they are for awhile so its the parents job to keep praying and trusting that this too shall pass. what I have found that really works is to pray early in the morning, and stay grateful even through the storm and just no that everything will be alright and keep believing that they will see the light, and only intervene when you need to, and try not to over react.

Sometimes just by being carefree and light headed makes all the difference. I trust daily that everything is going to be fine. and I keep my life busy and focus on my goals, and life without kids while there gone. To many people sit and worry about there kids all day long...no don't do that pray... and then trust God. Be a whole person, and live your life to its fullest and trust that the values you instilled will come back once there hormones, and attitude come back. I remember how I was as a teenager. I was a know it all I thought and my parents were crazy. I always said, and all I thought about was having fun and Boys. I snapped out of it kinda..lol
Just know they will too, and everything will be fine...Just try traveling with three teens and see how much they can make you crazy. I have learned to go with the flow, and do all with them and my husband on the other hand... has a low tolerance when it comes to kids in general so its harder for him to go with the flow, but by the grace of God we are all still alive and survive are family trips but are all so very thankful to have are own space once we get home.

Family's are great to have, but you must all learn to have your own separate time alone for regrouping and sanity savers. when we get home everyone is craving there alone time except my daughter she loves chaos all the time she hates alone time...so she may just have a huge family who knows. Are family is very vocal we say whats on are mind, and fight and then move on and love each other. we don't hold back are feelings at all and sometime that surprises people, because they think we are going to kill each other, or that we hate each other, but not the case we find it healthier then holding are feelings inside ..nobody ever has to wonder whats wrong or worry about silent treatment or getting offended...We just lay it all out there, and then move on not holding any resentment...I like it this way makes a happy home eventually..lol

Keep moving forward don't waste one single moment worrying or stressing about anything you cant change anyway, take one day at a time and go with the flow of life, Dreaming and doing what you love, pray and receive many blessings that you deserve to receive. Love all and walk in peace and love knowing that teens will grow, and you will grow through it, and survive. God will not give you more than you can handle in a day so stay in peace, and Love, and don't run from the ones that love you, and be all that you were created to be and do. Enjoy this journey called Life. Remember who you are and that you had an Identity before you had children, and they took over your life ...find it again and go in strength and accomplish all your goals.

Peace and Love Always, Ursula

Life is like a Roller Coaster

Good Morning,
Life is like a roller coaster... many ups and downs, and twists, and turns, and the minute you think you got it all figured out it turns, and twists again always an adventure that your trying to figure out. See if we let it flow like a roller coaster we no longer have to try and figure it all out we just get to go with the flow of it enjoying the breeze along the way , and learning daily what we need to learn.

When you live your live knowing its like a roller coaster you will no longer worry about the things you cannot change ..You will be again to expect lots of twists, and turns along the way and you wont let it shake you up, and make you feel bad you will enjoy the ride expecting many wonderful twists, and turns to come, and you will want more because that's how you grow and learn daily.

Life is what we make it and I intend to enjoy the ride every single day embracing more and more of the twists and turns, learning to Love yourself and go with the flow of this wonderful life, and enjoying every single day, making the best of what you have, and improving yourself daily in Gods wonderful strength. How great would it be if everyone in the world would learn to just embrace this wonderful life instead of always being in a hurry, rushing from place to situation, and feeling like there life sucks and staying mad all the time....No don't live that way I'm telling you ...You can have it all and you can live and enjoy the ride every single day...Its as simple as a choice, and redirecting your anger into positive living..Focus on greatness, happiness. Some of you have been mad so long you may not even remember how it feels to smile and be happy.

If that is you today I say start spending alone time with yourself, and God and get back in touch with yourself, and rediscover your youth, and start exercising, eating healthy, and put yourself back on your to do list and before you know it.... your peace, and your life will say bring it on roller coaster...I'm ready for more twists and turns, and I'm ready to laugh and be joyful along the way.


Go in peace today knowing life is what you make it, and you have the power no matter what twist, and turn your going through to enjoy it now before its to late...Embrace your roller coaster today and always. You all have the power to live life to the fullest every single day go after your dreams today and follow your peace and passion, zest for life.

Peace, and Love Always, URSULA

Sometimes you must Delete inorder to recieve

Good Morning,
Sometimes in life you must say goodbye to people, things, or situations that are not good in your life... that take from you rather than add something of value to your life there can be many things that actually drain your energy, and suck you dry..rather then give you peace and make your life better and happier. Find out what it is in your life that is taking from it, rather then adding value, and don't be afraid to evaluate your life and get rid of toxic people, or toxic situations. People will tell you all kinds of stuff to get you to believe that you are better off to have them in your life and will continue to take from you and suck your energy if you allow them to, but you have the power over your life not them, and you can delete anyone that is not good for you, or any situation that is not good for you at anytime. If someone or something makes you feel uncomfortable or crosses the line...Delete them. Even if its a toxic parent or other family members...My mom is toxic she is an Alcoholic Ive had to remove her from my life, as sad as that is. Pray for them that's all you can do but don't allow them to steal your Joy.

We have the power over are life to do and be all that God has created us to be, so why would we settle for second best when we can have it all, everything that God has intended us to have can be ares..You must pray and believe, and you shall receive all of Gods wonderful blessings. Do not let a serpent come into your life and destroy all that you have and have worked for. Always follow Gods Peace and Love , and follow your peace not someone Else's peace..You must be strong and stay grounded and keep pressing on for a greater more abundant life.

You get one life to live, and there will be many decisions daily that you will have to deal with and many distractions, and people and things that will try and lead you astray from Gods plan for you. Stay in peace, and learn to desifer the Good from the Bad and always stay and hold your ground in situations that are not right for you. Learn the word "NO"... it will be very helpful in your journey...Everyone will take from your time, and your energy if you allow them to. Yes we are to be loving ,and nurturing to people , but learn the difference between Takers and givers. If your doing to many things for two many people, and your not effective at home, then you need to stop those things and focus on your Home life keeping your immediate life in order, and running smooth first. keep your family safe and well taking care of. Get rid of the garbage and make room for abundance and peace to flow through your life, and spend as much time as you can filling up your cup, so that you can give. You cant give if your cup is empty you must keep it full. Hopefully this all makes sense what ever situation you may be going through..God is more powerful, and he will give you the strength to delete the bad, and make room for the good in your life to continue to flow like a river through your life.

Peace, And Love Always, Ursula

Dept Free Lifestyle

Good Morning my wonderful readers,
Thank you so much for following me on this journey... of raising wonderful smart kids..lol
Positive attitude will get you through that's for sure. this week is packed full of fun on this last week of summer break my jeep is good as new ready to travel, and my husbands car is all fixed, and the best part of it is all was payed in cash money... No credit card dept for us...It is so great to live a dept free lifestyle only buying things you can afford, and teaching your children that if you don't have the cash..you cant afford it.

No more swiping credit cards , and paying for it later..that is not the way to live because by the time you pay all the interest you ll never get your credit cards payed off. Why not pay off your credit cards and only use them for emergency's. Right down a monthly budget, pay your bills first, and then see what you have left over, and save some and spend some...You can do it with this cash dept free lifestyle, and once you have everything payed off ..you can start focusing on getting your home payed off faster..How great would it be to set a goal for yourself to have everything payed off by retirement...How perfect would that be...we should all strive for that goal, and achieve it.

Keep the cars you have pay them off and then maintanance them regularly, and only by what you need, not what you want, and save money through out the year for your vacations, and extra.
What a freeing feeling not to have bill collectors calling..trust me I have lived both ways and dept free lifestyle is the way to go, only buying what you can afford..what a great feeling to pay cash for everything you buy, our Jeep will be payed off this winter, and the only thing we have left that is not payed off is our Home..now we can focus on paying it off before the thirty yrs by making extra payments. When kids are gone and house is payed for... we can finally travel and see the world. Set goals for yourself, and make this cash lifestyle a reality no matter how hard it will be at first you can do it...This world is all about instant gratification..stop that and start living really living. Make all your dreams and goals come true and teach your kids if you don't have the cash and your bills are not payed you cant afford it.

Peace, and Love Always, Ursula

Last week of Summer Break

Good Monday Morning,
It doesn't feel like Monday since my husband worked all weekend, it feels like they days just start running into each other, and there all work days..Brian's job is so busy right now that he may have to work straight through weekends as well, until everything gets caught up...Great Job security Hanford...rocks.

So this is the last week of summer so we have already clothes shopped, and now I got my Jeep ready to do a road trip this Week to Silver wood Theme park instead of are Fair here we decided it would be funner to end the week traveling,and staying at a hotel, and eating out for a change. so today I am going to get my oil changed and tires aligned.. since they didn't do that at the tire shop yesterday I was there four hours waiting for my new tires...crazy...But I got the best tires because the ones I wanted that were cheaper they only Had two of , so they gave me the best Goodyear tires for the same price as the cheaper tires , and Balancing, Warranty for life of tires... free so I can live with that...It was worth it driving home last night with the new tires.

WE meet with the prosecutor tomorrow for Austin my sons two cases to get them reduced to lower. and we have Charter coming Thursday morning to install new phone service, and then we are off for our adventure to the great happy theme park rides water park and so much fun, and shopping at Spokane for more school clothes ..I'm bring my video camera to see if I can film some of my kids on the rides ..Just me and the kids traveling having fun there last week of summer break, cant believe summer is going to be over they start School next Monday already.

So we will make this week as memorable as we can. Time flys by... enjoy every single moment and cherish your life always, creating happy family trips and fun. Brian's car should be out of the shop today his steering tire road broke so we will get that as well so he has a car while we are gone.
Enjoy the rest of August its going fast enjoy, and do everything you can before school starts.

Peace and Love Always, Ursula

Stop letting Fear Win

Good Morning,
Do you sometimes feel that you would like to make a change in your life, but afraid to take the risk, because fear paralyzes you...So you stay in a job you hate , a marriage, or relationship that is not working, because you feel its easier to stay then to rock the boat. How many times in are life do we miss out on meeting new people... doing new things, and going on adventures just because of fear? How come we let Fear rule are Life's?

Do you know what you Love to do? Do you know your abilities? Do you live your life to its fullest? Or do you sit around in a boring life and settle for second best just because that's all you know, and you've given up on your dreams. How many times do we sacrifice whats in are heart and soul, because we are afraid of what someone else will say or do. How many times have we told are self's that were not happy, but just stay anyway living a life that will never be happy pleasing everyone around us but not nourishing are soul and spirt.

How many times have you seen people in your life cry, and they tell you there not happy, and you give then advice and they continue to stay in that same situation year after year and it never gets better it always gets worse..but they let fear control there thoughts and actions.

When you step out of your comfort zone its never easy, and it will always be scary, but I promise the more you do it the more you take risks... The easier it becomes and the free er you start to feel, and the happier you become, never look to a person to show you or tell you what you should do with your life, always seek God first for his direction, and the peace that he gives you will lead you to your life's purpose and direction. When you are following your peace that's when life becomes amazing, and you go with the flow of life, and begin to listen to your heart, and you don't care what anyone else thinks because your living your life to its fullest.

Please today get this stop staying stuck in your miserable life and situation, because of Fear" The only way out is through " You must move through the fear in order to become happy and have the greatest most peaceful life ever. It will involve some changes...Which can be scary but will be so worth it in the end.

Figure out your Peace that surpasses all understanding, and do it. Change is good, new life new beginning. Follow Gods direction always even if you don't understand it at the time..You get to trust...Stop living an unhappy life just because its comfortable, and familiar...Be Better ...Do Better...Live a life of Bliss and happiness, and don't let anyone, or any situation bring you down. Stay strong and courageous, and be all, and do all that you were created to be, and do.

Peace, and Love Always, Ursula

Love Conquers All

Good Morning,
Can you believe it is Friday already...Wow the weeks go by so fast. Today we were suppose to go to Silver wood Theme Park, but my husbands work is so busy that they want him to work a double shift, so luckily I didn't make reservations, but I will for sure next weekend with or without him. he wants to go with us and ride all the rides, and fun with us so we will wait one more week and that is all... we will go with or without him next week since summer is almost over.

He was on his way to work this morning, and his left front tire got disconnected the bolt feel out or something while he was driving to work it started shaking, and he pulled over on the side of the highway, and got out and looked and sure enough the whole steering rod that keeps the tire on was disconnected...Crazy right. So he called me at 5:00am and I came and got him he brought me home, and now I get to call a tow truck for the car, and get it fixed. I'm just grateful it wasn't that far from are house, and that hes safe, and there was not and accident.

So today we are waiting for are new Dish satellite to be installed between 12:00-5:00 because I thought that everyone could live without cable since they watch all there shows on HULU but my husband hates watching shows on the Computer, and is not a Computer person, so Cable is coming back through Dish...Crazy trying to make everyone Happy. So everyone will be happy, cable, and High speed Internet ..what else do you want in life...My kids are so very spoiled ,and it keeps them home, and there friends love it here, and there is always lots of food, so why would they want to run the streets...are only delima is night time in the middle of the night keeping him home and out of trouble in the late hours, since hes a night owl. Hes fine unless one of his friends knocks on his window in the middle of the night. We have taking all of his shoes so I guess if his friends want him to sneak out they will have to provide shoes as well...
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So whatever happens if you have crazy days like me dealing with something all the time, still have a grateful heart, and don't let it bring you down focus on the positive of the situation instead of the negative, and it will all work out it always does, and even raising teens you will be able to handle whatever comes your way....Don't push them away when they need you the most, when you want to kill them, kill them with Love and laughter...My kids always say to me mom your always drunk and happy naturally..Teach them how to be also... so they don't need drugs and alcohol to be happy... it comes from within and resonates out to the world...I can be happy doing anything, or being anywhere its a choice. No matter what your going through choose to stay happy, and keep your Joy... even through the storm, you might as well enjoy the ride..It goes by faster, and you will have less headaches and stress. You cant change Life, but you can change how you choose to deal with Life. After all Teens are just trying to figure out how to deal with peer pressure and deal with Life be a good example, and I believe they will turn around for good but don't push them away when they need you the most, keep them safe, Loved and at home with you for as long as you can, and they will be an Adult before you know it. Love conquers all.

I can remember moving in with my Grandma when I was around nineteen and I was working two jobs to pay off some credit card mistakes I made, and then I would go out and party, and come home late, and do it again, and just acting crazy...No matter how late I would get home and as quiet as I would try and be as soon as I walked down the hall to go to bed she would say"Hi honey how was your day missed you Love you, and I'm so glad your safe" She would get up and we would talk at the kitchen table and she never judged me, only listened and Loved me through the storm, and I knew that she would always be there for me no matter what stupid mistakes I made. That's the kind of Unconditional Love you need to give to your kids, family, and Friends.

Peace, and Love Always, Ursula

TEENS

Good Morning,
Yesterday was court for my fifteen year old son Austin, again we sit and wait for hours until hes called on the docket, while your waiting you get to talk to parents that are going through some of the same things your going through.
Finding out tricks to keep them home, and what alarm systems they are using, its crazy how all the kids shoes are taped up and damaged from sneaking out... that seems to be the most common thing is the kids sneaking out at night. We started taking my sons shoes, and making sure everything was locked up good at night..Like a Alzheimer patient. His next court day is September first its taking so long because we are working on getting charges reduced its worth the wait, inorder for him to have less charges brought on his record, because he has to get a job, and the lower we can reduce it the better for his future.

Going through teen years doesn't all have to be bad, but once they see how much fun it is to party and start getting the freedom in High School with open cam pass that is the turning point, when they discover there is a Park that the skippers go to during the day and there is drugs, and alcohol there and all they need is money, and they can have as much fun as they want..they some how forget there brain for awhile and go into there fairy tale world that life is only about fun. They play the game" WEEDS" there as well and learn and talk about growing weed...GREAT JUST WHAT THEY NEED RIGHT.

Then when they get caught doing something there not suppose to do they go through the court, and the hoops so to speak, and then convince themselves they will be smarter the next time and not get caught by the cops, instead of saying they have learned there lesson and move on they want to be smarter at breaking the law..when I here teens talk that way.. its so frustrating to me to think they just want to get smarter at it and have more fun and party more.

There is no magic answer raising teens and there all different, but yet so the same in there thinking of just wanting to have fun. keep them busy and pray..pray..pray and there is a light and the end of the tunnel you may not see it for awhile but eventually you will and they will. take one day at a time and God will give you the strength to get through it. Raising teens is a full time Job.

Peace, and Love Always, Ursula

Attracting Blessings

Good Morning,
Wow, I have to say so many new exciting wonderful blessings keep coming into are life's when we stay faithful and believe we shall receive. Keep on attracting and expecting more blessings to come to your life. When something old crashes like yesterday the Internet...It has been so slow this summer with the teens home, always gaming and downloading new videos and shows they want to watch that smoke actually came out of the little black box DSL...So the kids started freaking out thinking they would die without the Internet, and I just made a call to a faster High speed Internet that we have been wanting anyway, and got it for less money then we were paying for the old service....Blessings and abundance that's what I call it.

I'm now using my smart phone with its wonderful Hot spot feature its like having your own router wherever you go... for my Laptop...So I am loving that feature for sure, so you see no matter what happens what blows up in your life you can handle it without freaking out it just means something better, nicer, faster is on its way, and the more you readjust your attitude and accept change , and blessings the more you will say "Bring It On"

Life is what you make it. it can be new and exciting and Great everyday you just get to make it that way by expecting great things to happen, and creating new and wonderful blessings daily. Don't just sit around being boring, and living a boring life get out there in the world, or on the Internet and create the most amazing happy Life for yourself today and always no one is going to do it for you. You must make it happen whether its a Business you want to do, or mate you wish to attract, whatever it is you can do and have its up to you to live the greatest most wonderful life that you could ever imagine, and its never to late to go after your Hopes and Dreams.

I Love that everyday I get to wake up with a grateful Heart and Create what I want to create, and Live out my Dreams, and Do what I feel is best in My Heart, and Be who God has created me to be and share my gifts and talents with the world..Loving myself in a well balanced way and excepting Love from others and creating, and expecting more Love and Abundance every single day. Have a blessed day everyone, I'm back to court today at 1:00 for my fifteen year old this is his finally court hearing, I think and I'm expecting him to learn his lesson do his community service, and move on and be a better smarter person because of it and choose good over evil. the next time peer pressure comes his way..He will be able to say NO, and we all get to learn from are mistakes and grow and be better and smarter because of them.

Peace, and Love Always, Ursula

Finding Your Peace

Good Morning,
Each day we are faced with so many decisions to make, and situations to deal with and life simply Lifing. WE have a choice daily to seek Gods will... first thing in the morning so that we will be guided and leaded to make the right healthy choices for our life, just knowing that we have him daily is a blessing knowing were not alone is huge. Take your time early in the morning to meditate, and listen to the still quiet voice that's inside of you wanting to lead you daily. When you follow that peace inside of yourself miracles start to happen you begin to get happier, less stressed you don't worry ...you just know and trust that all your needs are met today, and that's all you need to be concerned with.

I can remember growing up and that's not how it was in my family my mom was always stressed and worried about everything they were always drinking, and getting drunk thinking that would help them in there life, it only makes it worse, because eventually you will have to get quiet with yourself if you want to be free from pain and sorrow, allowing yourself to heal from past pain, and moving on to a great life takes work and you must put in the work in order to set yourself free from pain ,and hurt. Once you get in the habit of staying quiet early in the morning praying and seeking Gods will for your life everything great starts to happen, but you will have to go through the pain first in order to get to the other side of Peacefulness.

When we keep are self's so busy rushing from place to place situation after situation never having time to slow down and be with yourself of course you will be stressed , and mad, and tired because the only way out is through you must slow down feel your feelings and not run from them. Create a peaceful place in your home with everything you love and allow yourself to go there as much as you need to throughout your day to get in touch with that little girl inside yourself, or boy, and remember what its like to laugh..to play...to live without worries or stress...Before Life cluttered your thoughts and feelings. I encourage you to do this as much as you can to get rid of past rejections, and pain. I promise you if you do this you will begin to Love yourself again and except yourself just as God excepts you, and then and only then can you learn to Love again and except Love to flow through your life like a river of abundance.

Make some healthy choices for yourself today and everyday and seek God not people for approval and guidance..Rediscover your life and peace and reclaim your Mind...Spirit ...Soul.

Peace, and Love Always, Ursula

Never be to Busy to enjoy your Life

Good Morning,
Twelve days and the kids will be back at School and we survived another full wonderful Summer. Going to Siverwood finally this coming weekend. Very excited to go to the lazy river and get a drink at the bottom,and ride the roller coasters. Its been 95 and hot here for days August is are Hottest month... love it.

I'm ready for the kids to go back to school and for me to start a new chapter in my life doing what I Love and getting payed for it. starting my own Business, yet once again and praying for its Success..Never give up on your dreams and plans for your Life and when something fales keep trying never give up..Be like the energizer bunny.

Always Dream big and want more, and do more and see more, and follow your heart and passion for life... If you believe you shall receive., and when you receive you will be blessed. Know your potential, know your strengths, Follow your true passion, and don't be afraid of rejection. Life is great and wonderful you just get to make it that way, no one will do it for you. It takes work it takes strength, and action and Courage to do something you Love, and then find away to get payed for it. Nothing is impossible everything is possible when you have faith and you believe.

Endless possibilities await you every single day... you can tap into them if only you will. make everyday a new exciting adventer being spontaneous, child like and allowing yourself to be free to have fun and laughing as much as possible. Do not worry about the past mistakes only focus on today doing everything you can to live well, Dream Big ,and following your Zest and passion for life. Make this world a better place, because your in it. touch the life's of others everywhere you go and allow them to do the same, by not rushing through it always being to busy to enjoy it.

Slow down smell the flowers see whats around you and enjoy the Beauty of nature, and people and smile and be kind and thoughtful. Be the light in this Dark world..Let your light shine daily.
Please take the time to reevaluate your life and the people around you, and make it great and meaningful. I know that when my husband goes back to work on Monday he goes happy because hes thinking of the meaningful weekend we just had, and smiling because of it. sixteen years and still Loving strong.making each other feel good and feel so Loved and valued that's what its about....LOVE Deep... deep connections that cannot be broke because you've invested in it and make it strong daily...Please don't just focus on the kids, and forget each other you had each other before the kids ...you must keep your relationship, and friendship strong daily, and yes it does take work, but it is so worth it. Reconnect today and always, and keep all your relationships strong and healthy.

Peace, and Love always, Ursula

Today is Eat Pray and Love Day

Good Morning,
School close shopping is almost done for my growing teens, man there hard to shop with My daughter, and I love to shop, but my boys are on a mission to get what they want eat and leave as soon as possible. So my oldest son wanted Jeans three pair, and Shirts from Zumies the most expensive skater shop in the mall, and my middle son wanted more shirts, and my daughter wanted shirts from Hollister, and a fancy case for her cell phone, and new shoes from Zumies DC skater shoes.

So we managed to get all of that and they got a massage in the massage chairs, because shopping is so hard...lol Then we ate at Panda express. My husband got invited to go boating with his wild high school friends last night, so the kids and I shopped by our self..which was nice. Brian decided to go boogie boarding.. which he has never done along with drink some beers, and slipped off the boogie board, and sliced his lip open, and is very sore and hung over today for work, so I guess he had a great time with his friends if that's what you want to call it. Hes a water Skier only.

So we all had fun last night and today starts my Fun Eat... Pray... And Love Day. I decided since this is the first day the movie comes out why not have a girls day invite friends to come along then eat lunch together, Pray together, Laugh together, and then go get are nails done..which my daughter has been wanting to do for so long. So it is going to be a great wonderful Hot day indeed. Dress up and spend quality time with great friends.

Celebrate your life doing what you love daily and make everyday full of great memories even if you have to take three teens shopping..lol I am so very grateful for every single day that I have and I do not want to waste one single moment of it. Live your life with Abundance and expecting more to come at all times. Tomorrow we are finally having are big Yard Sale... Joy cant wait to sit out in the sun all day..lol We are getting rid of the old and making room for the new wonderful blessings that are coming are way today and always...Stay in Peace and Love and remember to smile its so much easier and nicer than frowning.


Peace, and Love Always, Ursula

Trust God Daily

Good Morning,
The older I get the less I worry about how things, and situations are going to workout. I just know that they always will work out fine. when you start to evaluate your life and realize any problem that may arise... God knows before you, and will work it out and give you the strength, and will to handle any situation, and give you the miracle you need to have for that situation.

Time and time again looking at my life and things that have happened that I thought I may die God was never to late to come and handle all, hes never early however, but will be there to answer your prayers just in the nick of time, so there is no need to worry, stress, or be sad.... with God... In God there will always be away. Please waste not one single moment being sad or negative for God has a plan for your life a plan to prosper and Be all that he has created you to be... you must follow his voice inside yourself, and let him guide,and lead the way. Trust daily...Pray daily for his guidance and wisdom to carry you through, always walk in Peace and Love and have a open Heart to receive Love from all and many Blessings.

This month is a spiritual month for Muslims and many spiritual groups" Ramadan" What that means for them is to go deep within themselves, and seek only God refrain from Sex, fast and Pray only for the whole month..Now I know to most that may sound crazy and unattainable but for them that is there life and the way to be. I feel we could learn from that Holiday. Learn to be more disciplined, learn more self control, and learn to trust God more for our direction, and purpose for are life. Why not take some time with God to evaluate are life's and make sure we are living out our purpose and his plan for our life.

Trust God daily not just on this Holiday but Daily seeking his will for your life his plan, and no that he will not give you more than you can handle in a day, and miracles are on there way, and positive creates positive, and don't waste one more single day feeling sorry for yourself because we are blessed more than you could ever imagine possible...Walk in Peace and Love today and everyday I love you and wish you a blessed Day and month.

Peace and Love Always, Ursula

Enjoy Day By Day

Good Morning,
this week is yard sale week we are finally going to have are yard sale this Saturday even if Brian has to work, so getting everything priced and ready to go ...Oh Joy it is.
It is so important to either have a Yard sale once a year or donate your stuff ...which I would prefer, But Brian insists on having a Yard Sale,and making some money,and so that your Home doesn't become a hoarders house. Keeping the clutter out of your Home, and only having what you use is the way to simplify your life.

Cleaning out all areas in your life is the way to go, Mind, body, soul, spirit, and Your Home... it all is connected to you and how you feel, Its so great to have all the old stuff gone, and create a place for new , and new thoughts, and way of being. Cleansing and purging your life, and your Home. Great way to keep your home tidy if all stuff you don't need is gone, allow yourself to let go of the things in your life you don't need anymore, and that applies to all areas of your life. Stop holding on to the past.

I'm enjoying this last part of Summer break with my kids and I am so very grateful that they are all helping get everything ready for the Yard sale.
My daughter is a fashion Diva/Personal Assistant/Professional Organiser...So she whips everything in shape great, including me she organises better than me sometimes I feel like shes the mom..lol My nails are painted and done, my toe nails are done.. With lots of colors and sparkle fun. Ive got her to curl the back of my hair, and what ever my needs are she is right there...Nice to have a personal Assistant... that loves helping her mom. She insists on doing all, she loves to be busy. So we are pricing Yard Sale stuff today. And I'm sure another make over for me..lol she use to paint her Brothers nails until my husband got mad, and made her stop..Now she gives there friends make overs when they come over, she fixes there hair or whatever they will let her do...CRAZY GIRL.

Whatever you do enjoy your life everyday and celebrate all the good and learn to laugh, and smile, and be Joyful even if you have to do the things you don't like..lol and get make overs everyday..lol
They will be gone one day so enjoy your children even if you have to hide all there shoes so they don't sneak out and screw all the basement windows shut, and lock them in like they have Alzheimer's whatever it takes to keep them safe and Loved Do...Even if it seems crazy, anyone with Teenagers understands what I'm saying are oldest son is giving us a run for are money but we will out smart him and keep him safe and at home whatever it takes even if we have to set traps for his friends that knock on his basement window in the middle of the night...lol

Make this day a great day and always remember you are smarter than your kids and you can handle anything that comes your way.. you must out smart your teens and think about every way you can to keep them happy, well feed and out of trouble...Because it will cost a lot of money when they get in trouble...Out smart them and don't be afraid of tough Love, and also there is a teen program called "Teens in Distress" you can sign up for and what that means is if they get in trouble They have to pay for there own Juvenile... which is $100.00 a day not the parents they have to do it and be accountable not you they do a crime they pay all ....That's the way it should be they have to learn that there actions... they are responsible for, and they must pay for. Whatever you go through you can handle you just get to grow and learn along the way also, and be better, and make better choices its tough having teens its different then when we were teens but we still can and will out smart them and take are power back. Have a great day.

Peace and Love Always, Ursula

Wake up with a Grateful Heart

Good Morning,
I'm up early enjoying this windy sunny morning, birds singing, wind chime chiming, and feeling very grateful, and blessed this morning. Do you wake up and think about the things your grateful for? Instead of focusing on the negative, and things you cant change why not wake up, and be grateful, and write in your journal all the things your grateful for..it works to retrain your mind and thoughts. Focus on all the good in your life rather then the bad you feel you cant change.

The more you wake up with a grateful heart the more you keep attracting more to your life, and your spirit begins to celebrate the good, and life just keeps getting better everyday. WE have a choice daily no matter what is going on to focus on the good, and keep being grateful, and attracting more positive great situations for our self and our life. Don't let anyone Else's actions, or thoughts steal your joy. Pray for them love them, and don't allow them to change you.

We all have a choice what kind of life to live Positive verses Negative Do you want to be right all the time or do you want to be happy?
Let life Flow and don't worry about small Petty things that you cant change anyway. Do not waste your energy one more day being mad or sad its not worth it. God has a plan for your life to "Prosper and be happy".... let God lead the way and the direction you get to seek his will for your life and then enjoy the ride.

Please learn to relax your thoughts, and emotions, and be child like again, and go with the flow, and be spontaneous, and full of laughter again. Do you remember how to have fun like a child ?
If not what are you waiting for we only get one life to live you must live it well, and to its fullest.
Take the quiet time you need daily to spend time with God for your "Peace that surpasses all understanding to come back" Slow down smell the roses, and enjoy yourself family, friends, and anyone you come in contact with. You deserve to have a great life, and you deserve to be Happy, healthy, and live the best most Abundant life ever... you just get to create it for yourself Daily following the lead of your God...and be prepared to watch miracles happen in your life.

Peace, and Love Always, Ursula

LIVE BIG DREAM BIG

Good Morning,
How many of you sit around wishing, hoping, and dreaming about a better life, and wanting more... but afraid to take the action steps that are needed.
Live Big... Dream Big... never be afraid to create exactly what you want in life. Live Big always, and teach others to do that as well. WE only get this one life to live... so live it great and do what you want and find away to get payed for doing what you Love.

I have so many Business ideas in my mind ideas and dreams flowing through my mind all the time, its never to late to follow your path and your vision for your life. Learn to step out of your comfort zone, and do things your afraid of, and try new things. Change is good and growing and learning comes from doing things afraid sometimes.

We get so comfortable in are life's sometimes that we forget to spread are wings, and reach for the stars ...why should we be satisfied with a boring life that we are doing nothing when we could... have all and do all never be afraid to follow your purpose and path even if you have to do it scared.

I believe we should all be living are life to the fullest... fulfilling are path are destiny, and are purpose, even if we have to do it scared. I was talking to a friend that has not been in a relationship for eight years and she is scared to try, and meet someone new and really has forgotten how to flirt, or even think about being in a relationship...How sad never give up and do all necessary steps to begin to live again, and flirt again..No matter who hurt you... you must leave the past in the past, and move forward create the life and the relationship you want, even if you have to do it afraid do it.

Never give up on meeting new people, and living the greatest life ever. Never give up on you. You deserve to live the greatest most wonderful life you can live. Start making some positive changes in your life today whatever your situation is and whatever you need to change even if its just your attitude... change it today make it positive and take the action steps to create your perfect life today....LIVE......LOVE....LAUGH.

How many people are afraid of... LOVE... like its a bad word STOP IT ....LOVE is the key to dreams, happiness, and excitement to keep you going strong, please don't be afraid of...... LOVE . Love yourself and then search for love with people, jobs, situations everything and everyone needs LOVE... GO GET IT . Please allow yourself to be open to the possibilities of Loving yourself, and Loving others again its never to late to make a healthy change and feel good along the way.

Peace and Love Always, Ursula

New Life New Beginning

Good Morning my Wonderful Friends,
I couldn't sleep this morning woke up with my husband as I always do at 4:00am got him off to work, and then tryed to go back to sleep but my mind just wouldn't turn off. I'm starting my own Personal Shopping Business really excited about this... Ive been thinking of this idea for three years since I worked at retirement Homes, helping older people shop, and taking them as there tour guide to activities.

I have been working at home now for three years and do still love it, but ready for a new change and I feel led to help others, more so than I already do. I know that having your own Business is the greatest most rewarding way to live... setting your own hours , being your own Boss..so this is the new start I feel lead to go in, and the direction I must now go.

Don't be afraid in your life when you feel lead to follow a new path to do it, let it flow pray about it and follow your peace always. We all have many gifts and talents, and things that make us inspired and happy. I have done many network marketing companies worked many retail positions, and have worked many jobs that I hated, just to get by as we all have. Why not pray and follow Gods direction for your life using your gifts and talents and then making it happen for yourself to find away to get payed for doing what you love.

I have always loved to shop for myself and people who cant see, cant drive in retirement homes, Cancer patients, or simply Career people that are just way to busy to go grocery shopping, or pick up there prescriptions. I can use my gifts, passions and talents and do this Company, and as it grows I will hire shoppers, and I will work in the office on the Business side of it.

Whatever your Heart desires is in your hands whatever you want to do... you can do, don't ever be afraid to follow your dreams for your life. you can do anything your heart desires and make as much money along the way as you want. Live Dream Big create your wonderful life for you everyones different and everyone has different gifts and talents find out what yours are, and create income doing what you love. Its never to late to make a change in your life, and never let someone else tell you what you should do with your life...Its your Life. Live it well Helping... being a light and following your dreams. Dream Big and put the Action steps in Place to make it happen for yourself today and Always.

When One Door Closes a new and Better one will Open... but you must get up and walk through the Door. Don't let life and situations tear your spirit down. Get up and keep moving forward and never giving up on the Life you so desperately want to create for yourself. Who cares what anyone else will say or do its your Life. Live it to the Fullest Every single day never looking back with any regrets. What are you waiting for... go for it make it happen in your life today whatever that dream is do it Now.

Peace, and Love Always, Ursula

Enjoying the rest of the Summer

Good Morning,
Up early enjoying my alone time, We have had the most Beautiful hot sunny days here its really been a Nice Hot August so far. Brian is working a double shift at work today, so that means he left the house at 4:00am and wont be home till 11:00pm tonight his work has been so busy this Summer, and he never wants to turn down overtime.

So I'm sitting here on my back patio enjoying this weather, and listening to the birds, trying to decide what the kids and I should do, when they wake up ...Clean , mow, and pull weeds, and then I'm thinking we need to do something fun just not sure what yet, and then of course tonight from 4:00-6:00pm they have Vacation Bible School. that will be my two hours alone time. When you have kids home everyday with you... find your alone time whenever you can, to survive, and regroup, and recharge your battery.

Focusing on things and fun activities always helps make the days go by faster, and the less I worry about how many hours Brian works, after all as long as the kids have at least one parent home at all times... that's whats most important. Summer is almost over, and I cant believe how fast it has gone by. there is still so much I want to do with my kids, and more traveling to do I have been waiting for Brian to get some time off ...because now he says he wants to go to SilverWood Theme Park with us, but I'm sure that we will end up going without him his work is just way to busy for him to get two days off, so I will wait another week and if he cant get two days off we are going without him, and doing School clothes shopping in Spokane Washington, and then the... Ocean its looking like I better book something soon for that as well and go without him he can stay home and watch the Chihuahuas. Austins next court date is August 18Th so we shall see what will happen with that he has been really good so far so good.

Lots to still do, and I have decided just do whatever fun things I can think of for the rest of the Summer, because its almost over, and next year hopefully Brian will have more time to come with us, and if not we will go without..I love to travel, and so do the kids so we will go and do and Be, and enjoy this great Hot weather we are having while we can, and thank God we can do this for three more weeks, Rafting, Boating, swimming, and Traveling so much left to do this Month of August, and Find places to Nature Hike...You only get this one Life... Live...Love....Laugh Every single day. Enjoy the rest of the Summer and create memories along the way.

Peace, and Love Always, Ursula

Follow your Peace

Good Morning,
Well this week for the kids its all about Vacation Bible School.. they are having so much fun, and it always ends with going down those big inflatable water slides , so that helps get the energy out as well..Fun in the sun.

Windows are ready to be put in the basement, just have to get the guys over here to cut through the basement concrete, and then Brian will put in the new windows cant wait that is going to be so nice and Light down there. More like a daylight basement.

I have been keeping busy with errands, and extra kids that come over, and making four cheese cakes for Brian's work party today, he Volunteered me to make them for today's work party. I made cherry, raspberry,strawberry, and blueberry cheese cakes last night, so that he could bring them to work for there big party that they are having..yum sounds good right now.

No matter what you have to do, and how crazy your life gets always remember to count your blessing and focus on the positive of life no matter what keep your peace. When you do lose your cool or get a negative attitude.. be quick to shift fast, and not stay there. We all will get frustrated and lose are cool once in awhile. be aware of it fast and shift. Don't worry about the past keep moving forward striving for more and a better attitude its a daily experience that you must go through in order to grow and learn how to be better and happier daily, and please don't let anyone Else's feeling or actions allow you to turn negative, stay positive, happy , and healthy daily by doing the things that nourish your soul and spirit. Find out what you love that makes you happy, and is a good stress reliever..whatever that is for you and do it often, and redirect your thoughts and feelings on being greater, and better, and help others, and be a giver, as well as a receiver.

Do all that nourishes your soul and spirit, and spend time with like minded people that lift you up higher, and not tear you down ...Treat yourself Great, and be a light in this dark world. Follow your passion, and always let your light shine so bright that its contagious. People want to spend time with you, and want to know what drug your on.. so that they can be happy all the time too..lol

When you take care of yourself exercise, eat healthy, spend quality time with God follow your Peace everything becomes so much lighter, and happier, and you no longer have to struggle it just works, and don't be afraid to say No to the things that just are not working any longer in your life..A job..Friends ...Something that is taking from you that you don't have Peace about get rid of it and move on fast, and replace it with something that you have Peace about. Its never to late to make positive changes in your life..You are the Leader of your own destiny. Live it great, and well, and Always Enjoy every single Day because you never no if you will have another one.

Peace and Love Always, Ursula

Teens and following your Peace

Good Morning,
Being a parent doesn't not mean that you have to give up your Dreams and plans for your life it just means that things take longer, because of all the distractions you have as a parent..Yes you must put your children first,but that doesn't mean that you have to stop your life, and stop living, it just means now that your a parent you must put your children first, and still follow your dreams and purpose it just sometimes takes longer to get there, because you are so busy with your family.

For me I have chosen the path to stay home and do my best to make money along the way. while cooking, and cleaning and wearing my many hats. I enjoy staying busy and keeping my mind stimulated, and getting a pay check... that is very important to me. But also I have to say on this journey of staying home there has been many distractions along the way that have taken me away from business...LIKE SUMMER ...with three Teens. You think the older they get the less you will have to worry and be involved, and that is simply not the case they need you more and you must watch them more because they think that they can do anything, and nothing bad will ever happen, and there is many distractions for them as well. Its a daily retraining there mind and spirit for good and not evil, and assisting them along the way to make healthy teen decisions.

What they do as a Teen could greatly effect there future so its very important as a parent to stay on top of it and know where they are at all times even if you have to Screw the Basement windows shut so when there friends come to there window late at night to sneak them out they cant get out, and get a security system for your house whatever it takes to keep them safe and off the streets... that is what you must do.

So when your going through the wonderful teen years just" remember this too shall Pass"
Remember what you did when you were a Teen and remember that your parents survived and so shall you. God will not give you more than you can handle in one day, and no matter how old your kids are you will have the strength to get through the good and bad days. Whatever you need to do for yourself to get through the tough times do it always take time to recharge your battery never ever feel bad for taking your along time or spending time with good friends, that all helps.

I spent time with two of my best friends for lunch yesterday that I haven't seen all summer and we laughed , we shared , and we bounced ideas off of each other,I always get great feedback from them its nice to have such great smart friends to share your time with ...I must make it more often. I have come to the realization that one of my Businesses that I'm in is not what I want to Market,and haven't been motivated all summer, so Ive decided to stop one of them and follow my passion for Health and Wellness instead, and start my own Business as a Personal Shopper.

You must always follow your purpose and passion and not someone Else's. Be careful to only do what you want in business and the direction that is right for you, and not what someone else wants you to do. It will never work it must be your Love and passion and then find away to get payed for it. It is never to late to make changes in your life and do new things and when something is not working move on quickly with no regrets. we only have this one life so when we make a mistake move on and learn from it, and do what will work for you. Always follow that "Peace that surpasses all understanding " Please don't make the mistake that I have made so many times asking other people what I should do with my life. Spending alone time with God is how you will discover your Peace and what you are to do with your Life. We are all different and have different talents find out what yours are and then use them, and find out how you can get payed along the way, always putting your family first, and your needs as well..Love, Live, and Laugh every single day... don't waste on more second on the past... today is a new Great wonderful Day Celebrate it Always.

Peace and Love Always, Ursula

National Friendship Day

Good Sunday Morning,
Today in Honor of National Friendship Day I feel I need to write a Blog and Give a Big shoot out to all the special friends in my Life. I'm so Honored to have such great friends in my life touching my spirit in different ways, with so much Love and acceptance. So Its my turn to say how truly Grateful I am to have all of you that have came into my Life and made it Brighter.

Loving and Being Loved by Friends is such a gift that I cherish deep in my Heart and Soul. Learning to Love yourself in a well balanced way, and receiving Love from your Friends is such a gift from God. When you have a true friend that excepts you flaws and all, it is one of the greatest gifts that we can receive. I believe Friends true friends are hard to find so when you finally find true friends hold on to them, and treat them as you would like to be treated and even better, Learn to be a giver, and the best Friend that you can possibly be. Be Honest and True, and Authentic, and be the best that you can be always by being true to yourself, and your Friends always, and when you fail... because you will your Human, and you will disappoint, be quick to say your Sorry and move on, And cherish every moment you get to spend with your friends.

When you get together with them Always make the best of your time together, and you should always feel better after being with them and Laugh and be Happy when your with them, and when your Sad or there Sad always Lift there Spirits with an Ear and Kind words. Make them better after being with you , and you will be better as well after being with them.
Through Thick and Thin Friendships should last forever, and True friends are Hard to find so when you finally find your true friends hold on to them For dear Life.

Loving is all what we are searching for in life, and I believe that if you can Love a friend, and have true Friends than ...Wow anything else in life is just the Icing on the Cake ...Like a fabulous Family.
Call your friends today or contact them online or someway and don't just assume they know how you feel about them you must always... tell them and compliment them. Celebrate Your true Friendships today and Always In honor of National Friendship Day.

Peace and love Always, Ursula