Friday, July 30, 2010

Be a Lion with Courage

Good Morning,
Do you sit around wishing hoping Dreaming longing for someone or something you think you must have or you will die? Do you spend your life wishing, hoping, dreaming..About things you long for in your life, and you think that by doing that everything that life will be better if only I have that person or that thing I think I want, or that trip I must go on.

How many times in your life do you waste missed opportunities by not reaching out.. scared of rejection or worried about how they will react to find out you like them, or a situation that arises that was perfect but you were to scared to take action and make it happen for yourself. Do you waste your life thinking so much about the things you think you cant have.. because your so worried about rejection , and hurt feeling , disappointment. Do you live your life like a coward or a Big strong Lion that has courage and strength to do all... no matter what and doesn't worry about what anyone else will say or do.

How many years are you going to waste your life sitting on the sidelines and wishing, hoping, and dreaming. Life is about taking risks, and striving for your goals and the perfect Life for you. My oldest son and I talk, and I ask him why don't you ask that girl you like out and hes says, because he is to afraid of rejection so therefore he goes through High School waiting for a girl to ask him because hes to afraid of rejection. how many times have you done this in your life to fearful to go after what you want in life ?

I'm here to tell you ...there will be many disappointments in life girls will break up with you, boys leave you, job losses, changes all the time it will always be something trying to kick you down, are you going to continue to let life, and situations kick you down or are you going to be a roaring Lion... Taking every situation with courage, and strength, and not worrying about rejection....we must continue to move forward on our journey never being afraid of change, and risk taking. I don't know about you but I'm done with worrying about what people think of me I'm living my life to the fullest, and could care less who doesn't like it. Follow your dreams and wishes but make them happen don't just sit around dreaming make them a reality. Always learn from the situations that kick you down and grow and be better because of it...Learn your life lessons and then keep moving forward.

WE get to walk through this sometimes scary world making choices for our self daily that will benefit us in all areas, and never be to scared to make them happened, and when you get kicked down pick yourself up, and keep moving forward keep striving for everything you want in your life, write everything you want in life down on a piece of paper, and put the action steps in place to make them come true for you today and always. Dream Big and always remember before you leave your house.... you are a Lion and not timid, and you can and will do all with strength and courage, and taking healthy risks today and always. There is no Mountain to high for you to climb and no obstacle that is to big to overcome..So make it happen today to enjoy your life and have what you say you want daily.

Peace and Love Always, Ursula

Thursday, July 29, 2010

Clean your Life Up

Good morning,
In life there will be many decisions you will have to make on a daily basis, and how you handle that and decide daily is how you will determine whether or not you will have a good bright life you get to choose daily your path the Good the Bad its your choice.

There will be so many people that will try and lead you to there purpose,and there path for your life... saying" its what you need and want"...You must be so careful not to be a follower only a Leader will give you the lifestyle that will work for you..People will come in your life and try and steal your Joy and spirit if you allow them to. You must always be the leader of your life, and follow only Gods Voice and no one Else's... you must make sure daily that you are guided by that still small voice inside yourself by having your alone time with God first thing in the morning.

If you follow that and spend time with him, and wake up with a Grateful Heart daily counting the things your so grateful for then when people try to come in your life, and lead you astray you will not allow them to, because you will be full enough with God that you wont need them leading you astray. If there is someone in your life right now that is a taker and only takes from you, and never gives back and is poisoning your thoughts and feelings and is effecting you negatively get rid of them. If you can be around toxic people and they don't affect you, and you can affect them with Light and influence them to do better, and live better, then fine But if they are taking from you and you feel worse after being with them then.... "Delete them from your life".

Ive had to Delete several people from my life that were toxic to me, and my family we must clean up are life's in order to live life to the fullest..There are many hard choices you will have to make in order to do this but in the end its worth it, because you deserve to have a incredible life living out your dreams, and although some days are tough doing this you will thank me when you feel better..Make your life filled with light and Joy and the only way to do this is... Loving yourself enough not to sacrifice anything that you don't want to do that will hurt your spirit.

When we start living a healthy lifestyle,and having healthy friends and not toxic ones... life just seems to get easier and brighter, and when you spend time with healthy people in your life than you start to even feel stronger and better about yourself because your making healthy choices for yourself, and taking care of yourself.

Learn to get whole yourself before you can start attracting whole people into your life. we must love ourselves in a well balanced way, then seek God for direction and guidance, and then follow are chosen path and purpose for our life..We all have a chosen path, and purpose to follow make sure you find yours today and always be a Leader and not a Follower... being a follower like my oldest son found out will always get you in trouble,and make you take the wrong direction in life.

Always stay strong and do whats right in your Heart... even if its the hardest thing you will ever have to do. in the end it will be worth choosing the right path for you and not being a people pleas er and choosing someone Else's path. You must stay strong and always do what is right for you and your spirit, stay true and authentic, and real always ,and don't worry that you cant please everyone you never will anyway... so why try, all you have to worry about is pleasing God and doing what is right always, and never sacrifice your dreams for anyone else. live your best life today enjoying everyday as it could be your last and clean up your list of people in your life today, and don't be afraid to delete whom ever you need to in order to follow your purpose and destiny.

Peace, and Love Always, Ursula

Tuesday, July 27, 2010

summer time

Good Morning,
This whole week has been over 100 degrees... so Summer is finally here this Hot dessert heat that the Tri-Citys is known for is here...loving it I love it Hot and Beautiful. We have a basement in our Home with old windows so this week its about getting the Holes around the windows Dug, so that we can get our new windows in. It is going to be so nice to have more Light down there... in the now man cave.

Getting projects and things cleaned up around here and improvements to your Home always makes you feel good. I like new and improved whenever possible. Kids have been keeping busy with there friends.. it seems there is always extra kids around on a daily basis. we've been putting them to work as well as pulling weeds, sweeping, Digging... whatever needs to be done, and then Brian pays them ...Teens love money so you might as well put them to work since there always at your house, make them work for food..lol

My middle son said to me yesterday mom I'm definitely going to College, because I don't want to be a Construction worker digging dirt all day. My kids hate Labor work so I keep telling them that they better not waste there Brain... because if they do this is what they will have to do is labor jobs to pay the bills. so hopefully this week of dirt and digging will give them a wake up call yet once again to use there Brain and go to College, and then hire out the projects that they don't want to do..money gives you power to get things done without having to do them yourself.

So we are hiring My Sons friend to dig the holes, because he really needs the money and begged for the job, and my kids are hanging out watching him, and shoveling once in awhile..and saying this is hard work in the 100 degree weather. luckily where he is digging there is shade.

So life is full and we are all doing what we do to get through the rest of the Summer, going to Silver wood Theme Park, once these window projects are done, without Brian, because his job is so busy hes only been having Sunday off so we will go without him, and are ocean trip hopefully he will get to go. Hes got great job security right now so we got to be grateful for that.

Surviving and making the best of what you have, and still finding my alone time early in the morning.. that is my Survival for the summer, and working out before they even get up, then I can focus on the agenda for the day once Ive nourished my soul, and worked out that's my sanity savor....Moms and dads don't forget to take care of yourself... first then your kids and family. make time for yourself daily spending time with God, Loving yourself, and staying healthy and fit...so important not to forget that. "Selfish equals Self care" Treat yourself first then and only then will you have enough to give. You must fill your cup before you can fill up anyone Else's. Make yourself a priority... if you don't no one else will. Make today a new day for yourself loving, living, and laughing. Don't waste one single moment on anything that doesn't nourish your soul, and Spirit...You deserve the best keep striving for more abundance in all areas of your life. "If not Now then When" Say this to yourself, and make your life excellent today and always you get to create it, and make it happen today.

Peace and Love Always, Ursula

Monday, July 26, 2010

Embrace your Life

Good morning,
Do you ever wake up and just count your blessing, and thank God for who you've become, and who he is allowing you to be through him. So many people just worry , and focus on the wrong things instead of just being so very grateful for what they already have, and get to do.

Learn to wake up listening to the sounds of nature, spending your along time with God, and Loving your life just as it is, and always striving to do more, and be more and have more abundance, Joy, and Peace...WE only get one Life how are you going to make yours better today?
How are you going to brighten this world today?
How are you going to make a difference?


Instead of worrying about what you don't have and focusing on the things you cant change why not focus on the things, and gifts you already have, and are already doing, learning too Love yourself, and Love others the way that God does.. will change your life. Don't waste one single moment of being Jealous of someone Else's life or the life you wish you had. No we all have a different purpose, and direction...Learn what your Purpose, and Life mission is ,and embrace the things you cant change and do more, and live better, make great memories everyday with your family, and friends..Loving, living, and Laughing like a child at Christmas..Why not live well, abundant, Joyful Life's.

I have learned a lot being home with my kids just to slow down, and appreciate all... with a grateful Heart, and I thank God that I am able to spend every single day with my Kids loving them , and spending quality time with them and sharing it with there friends as well. it doesn't take a lot to make kids happy what they need more then material things is you, and your time. Make time for yourself, and make time for them daily, and see if that lifts your spirit higher. It does mine they are my heart and Soul, and gifts from God.

Please don't waste one single second or day worrying about anything embrace this life the good with the bad and make it better just by being you, and always walk in Love,and share your gifts and talents with the world...Make it great... and full of blessings, and abundance to you all.

Peace, and Love Always, Ursula

Friday, July 23, 2010

Positive or Negative you choose

Good Morning,
Do you ever sit around and wonder why are other people Happy, and why do they have the life that I want but cant seem to find?
Do you ever make promises to yourself to live better, and do more and be better?
Do you ever say things like I'm not Lucky, I'm not worthy to have all that I want?
Do you ever just start your day wondering why bad things keep happening to you?
Do you ever sit in your room crying and feeling sorry for yourself, because you lost a job or that life is just Lifing?
Do you ever wonder why good things just don't happen to you, they only happen to other people?

If you do this and say these things because we have all been there in one time in our life going through difficult times.......STOP IT !

You have the power, strength, and Courage that God can and will give you today to retrain your thoughts, feelings, and Actions.
It starts early in the morning when you first wake up, thinking these thoughts, saying these thoughts out loud, what your doing when you continue saying these negative thoughts, and feelings is you create more negative thoughts and feelings, and actions to your life. you attract more and get the same results.

What we say, think and do is what we create in are everyday life and situations.
I want to invite myself, and you today to retrain your Mind Body, and spirit. To Aline in a Positive powerful way no matter what is going on in your life... you get to create your wonderful life and it all starts with you.
Wake up every morning with a grateful heart stop focusing on the past, and negative thoughts, the devil would love for you to stay there, and get depressed and do nothing with your life. But God whats all for You everything can and will be yours if you " Ask, seek, and Receive"

Start your morning only thinking about the good in your life, and attracting more of the good thoughts, and actions in your life. No matter how you were raised, who hurt you, You have the power to make this healthy , Positive change for yourself.

I could wake up everyday feeling sorry for myself, because my husband works so much, and I'm always alone with the kids doing all.

No I don't do that there were years that I did and felt sorry for myself, and had pity parties because of things that were happening to me, but it wasted a lot of time, and energy and got me no where, and was not healthy for me or the family, so I say to you stop focusing on the things you cannot change, and focus your energy on the good, and the things that you can change and do to live a healthy, Happy Beautiful Life, and its never to late to create the life that you want and deserve. If your searching for the perfect soul mate for you... they are out there for you and will be there at Gods timing not yours, so you get to do the work on yourself to start loving yourself, in a healthy well balanced way, and be content being by yourself and whole until that time comes.

When your looking for a relationship my advice is to be whole yourself, and confident, powerful, loving , and Courageous, and Integrity...
that is what is attractive.

So today and for the rest of your life you get to focus on the positive, not the negative, and except the things you cannot change about yourself and other people, and do everything to change the things about yourself that you can to be whole, healthy, and positive, and always have a grateful heart, and I promise you your life will be changed today and forever, and you will have the life you've always dreamed about but thought wasn't possible. Go in love and peace everywhere you go and continue to let your light shine bright for the world to see, and you will see miracles start to happen today, and forever, and touch the hearts, and souls of others just by the sparkle in your eyes, and the smile on your face.

Peace,and Love Always, Ursula

Thursday, July 22, 2010

Healthy Fit Life

Good morning,
Never give up on being and doing what you want to do its never to late for anything, you can make wonderful things happen at anytime, whenever you want. Like right now I'm home all the time with my kids, and as much as I love it. I still Dream Big and want more. I know there is so much I will do in this Life so many Passions, and Desires in my Heart to Follow. So while I'm here now I get to dream about all those wonderful things I want and do, and enjoy where I am Right now. Knowing that if I want to travel and do all the things I think about.. I can and I will when the time is right.

Make everyday a day to dream, Fantasize, and explore different possibilities in your mind of what you want, and want to create for yourself, and never give up on your passion or dreams, even if they just have to be on hold for awhile while your raising your kids. You get to create your wonderful life every single day...and Believe that whatever you want and hope to achieve is on its way. right now your not wasting your time your molding your children's life's for the future, and they need you as hard as that is some days. Some days I just want to run away and never come back, on the hard long days, but you cant run from your children or life's trials you must stay and deal with them, and get your alone time, that is so important. I fight for mine, and lock my self in my room sometimes, whatever you have to do to survive do it..lol

I am working on myself right now..Learning to increase my weight training so that I can create the body I want, and deserve to have..take pictures of yourself to see if your happy with the way you look, and if your not..then take action to create the muscle and definition you want..so for me that's what I am doing, I cant take off and travel all around the world like I would love to do, and leave my family, so I'm focusing on the things that I can do right now..Like wake up early when the kids are still asleep and write my Blog..do some Business stuff and then take my time everyday to go to my gym, and sweat and build muscle and lose Fat. don't worry about the things you cant do right now, or that you long for. Just focus on what you can do like taking great care of your Health, so that when your kids are gone, and you can do all your Hopes and dreams you will still be strong and healthy enough to do them.


Love Big, live Big and enjoy where you are every single day even on the hard days, and Hot days. That is my Goal to be content where I am in my life right now... not wasted time thinking about if I had this, or if I did that I will be happy . No... happiness you get to create everyday inside yourself. Learning to nourish your Mind, Body, and Soul Daily. Do not expect someone else to make you happy, and then get disappointed when they don't meet all of your needs... they cant, only you can do that for yourself. You get to meet your own needs, and wants daily, and it all starts by looking deep within your soul, and creating what you want daily, and loving yourself enough to realizing your worthy of being the best that you can be. It will be hard, and it may be painful, but the end result will be worth it, and you deserve to take great care of yourself first, and put yourself at the top of your to do list, and then and only then can you be a whole person, that can do all for your family and friends. Don't just say what you are going to do.. do it now start today you deserve to be fit and Fabulous, and so do I.

So my weight training is increasing, and I will endure all the pain to get the results and the body I want and deserve to get. Make a choice for yourself today that your never to busy for yourself, and its never to late to create what you want. I get to live in abundance in all areas of my life creating the life of my dreams even when I'm home with my kids on a daily basis, doing what I do, because I'm worth it, and I deserve to live a long healthy vital life, and so do you. Go Create it today for yourself.

Peace and Love Always, Ursula

Wednesday, July 21, 2010

Nature Hike

Good morning,
Loving this Hot Summer finally, we are feeling the Heat. Yesterday I was planning a day to go Hiking and Rafting and my boys decided they didn't want to go. my oldest stayed up late watching" Lost" all night on Netflix and my other son didn't feel like Rafting so my daughter and I were in the mood for Adventure, so we decided to go on a hike to see what we could see, and find A Nature Trail, and decided to bring the camera.

It was so hot sweat was dripping off of us so how perfect for a workout sweat, and burn the fat off that's what i want, and along the way we saw great old trees, and streams, and stumps, and we decided to take some pictures, so that my boys would see how great it was, and want to come with us next time, and then we were having so much fun trying to find the great places to take pictures that it lasted three hours, and what great bonding time for her and I. We were laughing, and wiping bugs and stuff off of each other, and patting or sweat before pictures, and falling in streams, and walking through them...How great to have such a wonderful Daughter to share my time with.

I was always trying to take pictures of her before this and she always hated it so this really inspired her, that taking pictures in Nature is so much better than anything else, now she wants to find all kinds of Nature Hiking places to get a workout and have fun, and take pictures. Who knows this might spark an interest in photography, or modeling since shes so beautiful.

How great to enjoy Nature and Beauty all around you, celebrating and living and finding Joy just by being and doing great things like that..It was free it didn't cost anything, and yet it is priceless memories with her, and I with the streams,Ants, bugs, bees, and dragon flys...It was a great day then we came home all excited to show the boys what we saw, so I encourage you all to just enjoy the simple things in life, and discover your connection with your family. Make memories and see if that lifts your spirit for awhile, it doesn't cost money to make memories, exercise, and have fun.

Peace, and Love Always, Ursula

Tuesday, July 20, 2010

Enjoy Everyday

Good Morning,
Today its going to be another Hot day. Brian is working a double shift called hold over, they have so much work at his Company.. its crazy busy for him. We wont see him till late night, and then he will still have to work all day tomorrow, and there could be even more overtime they will want him to work this weekend..so he will be tired, that's for sure, and the kids and I may go rafting today, and pack a lunch and eat at the river it looks like the perfect day for that.

No matter what your going through make the best of what you have and continue to look at the bright side about everything..Even if your spouse has to work a lot at least they have a job, and all your needs are met Financially..There are so many people without a job right now. so if his Company wants him to work everyday its OK, because at least he has a Job thank God, and for me I do all in the home stuff anyway, so It just means I don't have to cook a big dinner tonight, the kids and I can eat whatever we want..no worries.

How blessed I feel to be able to just go with the flow of life no worries, no stress, just allowing life to be, and going with the flow of life. Making great memories for my kids, taking lots of pictures, and they are just content even when we just stay home all day. All there needs are met, and they love there home, and love to be home..doing what they do.

So enjoy every stage of life the good the bad, and the busy. Whatever is your path follow it, and enjoy the ride. My path is to love, and to nourish my family right now, guiding and leading them to a great happy fulfilling life, A life that is simple some days, and crazy busy others.They know they can always count on me for anything, whatever it is, and whatever comes your way you can handle. You must stay strong, get up everyday even on the days that your the mom, and the Dad and keep on keeping on living..laughing, and loving, and keep doing it everyday. its your choice how to live your life, and its a whole lot easier living it happy, and positive.

Enjoy everyday to the fullest...and always wake up with a grateful heart let the past hurts, and trials go..Today is a new day, and you must move forward making today the best most wonderful life you can have with no regrets, and no sorrow. Who you will meet today is who your suppose to meet, and how you choose to live it is how your suppose to live it staying positive, healthy, and Loving..that is the only way to live your life to the fullest. its not about more money or more stuff to make you happy its about digging inside your self to create your joy and zest for life, and then sharing it.

Today I Celebrate my strength, my courage, and my ability to move forward, being a powerful, strong role model for my kids.. letting my light shine bright for the world to see. Always being grateful, and Celebrating my blessings..There is no pity party only peace, love Joy and happiness that's what I get to create today, and Always.... Walk in Love and make it a great Day.

Peace and Love Always, Ursula

Monday, July 19, 2010

Loving...Laughing...Living

Good morning,
Wow Monday again, we sold all Chihuahua puppies now except one. One Boy left hes brown and cute so we call him brownie till hes sold. soon I will be able to get all my carpets shampooed. Clean and back to normal, and the kids will be going back to School in a month and a week.

Summer is going by so fast, still so much to do and plan for, I better hurry before Summer is over. I feel so blessed and fortunate to have this quality time with my kids, I adore them even though they are teens.

I just know that soon they all will be gone it happens so fast like a blink in your eye, and then they will be off to College or whatever path they choose for there life.
Loving... laughing... Living. That's what I choose to Focus on for today, and always spreading Love, Laughter, and Joy wherever I go... and instilling that in my kids as well.

When you look into someones eyes you can feel and see there soul, the sparkle in there eyes the sadness in there eyes... you can see everything just staring into someones eyes. What do people see when they look into your eyes? Do they see Light or Darkness?

Have you ever wondered what your eyes say to people, and what kind of Vibrations you give out, and why sometimes you look into someones eyes, and you see fear or sorrow, or darkness and you want to get away from them.

I encourage you to take the time when you meet people to look deep in there eyes, and discover who they are through there eyes, and find there true authentic Heart. Let them discover yours as well it doesn't take long before you feel what kind of person they are, and you can see through all there joy or all there pain.

Knowing who you are and Celebrating your life by Loving..Laughing..Living is the key that we all need to living the best most wonderful life that we can live. Learning to walk in Love and taking the time to reach out to people you know, and just meet with a smile and a Hi... you never know how you could change someones life for the better just by being your true Authentic Loving Self. Always treat people the way that you want to be treated, and make a difference wherever you go to brighten your day and someone Else's. Just a smile with everyone you see makes a difference.

Notice people in there jobs that go above and beyond the call of duty,and that do an excellent job. always compliment people that you meet find something you notice on them or there actions, and compliment them make there day..everyone likes to be complimented . I do this in my Business. When I go out I notice the people that go above and beyond the call of duty at there jobs or whatever they are doing...And I compliment them and leave a big tip. Notice what someone is wearing.. They took the time to get all dressed up compliment them ...You don't have to know them Its a great Ice breaker, and everyone loves to be complimented ...I know it makes me feel good when someone notices me, and says something about it..Don't just coast threw life Notice, live, be, and step out of your comfort Zone...You may meet some amazing people and make some more great friends by doing this, or Business partners...You never know what someone else is going through in there life you just might brighten there day...Reach out with Love and acceptance..It doesn't cost anything to walk In Love...My kids say mom you always talk to everyone you don't even no...Why ? and its because of walking in Love, and sharing my Joy with the world. I am very grateful for everything I have, and I want to share it.


Make a healthy choice today to not go through life only thinking selfish, and about yourself make a choice to do better, and take the time to get to no people, make new friends , brighten peoples days, and allow them to do the same for you.

Peace and Love Always, Ursula

Saturday, July 17, 2010

Being a Spouse and a Parent

Good Morning,
Do you ever wake up and say to yourself"Another day what shall I do" Feeling like you keep doing the same thing and getting the same results. Being a Mom and dad is one of the hardest and can feel like the most unrecognizable, unrewarding, and unappreciative Jobs out there, and some days I feel like wow am I really making a difference just by being at home and spreading Joy and Love.

Some days you question whether or not your making the right decision to continue to give all to your family. You do what you do over and over again and again, and we all have different outlets and ways of copping with are current situation, we search for things that are going to make us happy as well. For me I'm always doing so much for my family on a daily basis that to have any alone time I can find is essential for my well being.

When you focus on the day to day activities and responsibilities its hard to know what the future holds for us or our children, all we can do is do the best that we can do daily, and when you feel like your in a rut take a walk call a friend, find some outlet that makes you happy, and remember why your doing what your doing daily to take care of your family even through the hard times and even through the times that you feel you just want someone to take care of you for a change.

Being a parent and having a lot of responsibilities is never easy, but its just like anything in life its what you do and your attitude that will give you the strength to keep on keeping on, even when you do the same thing day after day feeling like what about me..You have to create your alone personal time for yourself to get what you need in order to keep on doing for others.

Being a parent is hard at times but remember why you do what you do for you family..You do the things you do daily because you love them even when it gets boring, you don't feel like it today, and you feel like you do way to much. I have days that I don't feel like cooking we all do, or cleaning, on those days take a break if you need to make it simple you cant be superwoman all the time, or Superman... Allow yourself to take a break when you need to and don't beat yourself up when you need a break.

Summer time it seems it never stops always so much to do and going on. Take a deep breath workout in the Morning, eat Healthy, and get through the days with your kids the best you can. Nobody warns you before you get married that it will be hard and challenging, and that you will be the maid, the cook, the bookkeeper, the Nurse, the counselor,the gardener,the provider, the taxi, the lover, the friend, and on and on and it never stops all day long. You have to wear all theses hats and then find a way to enjoy being and doing all these things. If I would of known all this is what I would have to do to have a family...I would of Ran when My husband asked me to marry him..LOL

Anyways when your married and have a family you find away to make it all work, and you find away to stay positive while your doing it, and somehow someway you keep doing what you do for your family day by day, and it all gets done, and it all works out, and you hope and pray that they will be 18 soon and off to College...And then because you are use to being so busy, you go through the empty nest syndrome...So no matter were we are in life just enjoy your day to day life and Celebrate the good with the Bad, and make it better as you Go. Trust that what your doing day by day is making and molding your children into being great people that will do good in the world, and make there life great. You will be alone one day and miss those busy times so enjoy where you are in your life right now.

Peace and Love Always, Ursula

Friday, July 16, 2010

teens

Good Friday Morning,
Yesterday I took my oldest son to see his Attorney to discuss his two cases and he has a woman Attorney..which she is wonderful, and she had my son explain exactly what happened on the nights that his friends came and snuck him out, and as he was telling her.. all I could think about was that my son was out late at night and how scary is that.

The attorney is really taking her time with my son letting him know how bad the friends that he was with those nights have it, and that they are both going to Juvenile detention for the rest of the summer. Talked about drugs and what the teens are doing now with selling prescription drugs to other kids and how addictive these drugs are, and how they alter your brain and decision making skills.

My son and I started having a discussion about everything and she sat there for a minute,and said to us" how refreshing it was to here us talk to each other in such a healthy way, that most clients she has the kid comes in looking like there High, and as soon as the parent starts talking to them they curse out the parent."

she asked my son what his plans where for the future and he said "He wants to go to College and study Physics or Chemistry...She said great its not to late theses misdemeanor cases can be gone in a year to two years, and many jobs require you to have a clean record..especially Government jobs.

So you get to make healthy choices for yourself and healthier friends. I told him to be a leader not a follower because when you follow someone Else's bad choices this is what happens, and anything after 10:00 pm is trouble. So I agreed to give him back his cell phone during the day, and he can hang out with friends during the day that don't break the law.

I hope and pray he is seeing the light that yes its OK to have fun and be a teen but not OK to sneak out at night with friends that do criminal activities, and he stay with them and watch them do it thinking he wont get in trouble.

Guide them and lead them in the right direction, and trust and pray they will do whats right, and when they get in trouble discipline them and then love them and guide them back on track its never to late for anyone, and we all have life lessons to learn daily.

Peace and Love, always, Ursula

Thursday, July 15, 2010

Summer Fun

Good Morning,
Today is... Hot.. Hot... Hot. Summer is here at last, and it is wonderful. I love Spring and Summer my favorite Seasons..WATER And WATER, Beaches, pools, boating, Rafting...Fun in the sun Love it.
I cant get enough of this Hot weather makes you feel good when you get out in the fresh air, and Sun and the wind blowing in your hair on the Boat.. it is Wonderful. I love it late night walks..So nice eating outside, camping with the Bugs..lol I could truly go on and on about how much I love Summer..It is the greatest.

So today kids are still sleeping. I'm up as usual early to have my wonderful alone time Loving it, and feeling great today, then after this Blog off to have a great day of working out, and then I am meeting with my sons Attorney today to discuss his two Pending cases, two get them reduced and taken off in two years since hes a minor, he didn't do any crimes just stayed with his friends that did, and has never been in trouble before.

Kids most likely will swim before or after that happens in this Beautiful Hot weather we are having, and I will do what I do loving Life and attracting more abundance to me daily. Still have two puppies Chihuahuas if any one wants one let me know. So excited to sell them and get my carpets cleaned and stop having a puppy daycare.

Life is Great my husbands job is going great.. they keep working him overtime lots of hours they have available so, as long as hes happy about it, I'm fine with it. I don't mind at all that hes gone everyday. I have a chance to miss him that way, and I get plenty of time to run my Business, and spend quality time with my Kids. still more Vacations to plan and more activities to do before the summer is over, and Lots of Fun in the Sun for sure..My kids will be.. black before the end of the Summer, and bleach blond from all the chlorine..Hope everyone is having the greatest Summer Fun Ever you get to create your fun today and always.

Peace, and Love Always, Ursula

Wednesday, July 14, 2010

Love Your Kids

Good Morning,
As I spend this Summer with my kids each day I feel so blessed and fortunate to be able to see them grow and share time with them daily Celebrating each one of there personalities and watching them start to mature into great people. I am so very grateful that I get to be with them daily loving all of them, and watching them become incredible people.

I have discovered with myself that I am embracing, that which I cannot change, and learning to Love myself just as I am, and Loving my family just as they are. When you let go of how you think someone should be or act, and having expectations of someone and how they should be and what they should do.. It only creates disappointment, If they don't meet your expectations...Allow each one of your family members own personality, and Gifts and passion shine bright...Allow your kids to talk with you about anything, They do need you even more when there Teens, and listen with your Heart, and Love and except all of them the good with the bad.

I have been dealing with a lot of hard lessons with My Oldest son, with some bad choices he has made, and is going through, and I never could of imagined him ever going through any of this, but I feel by him learning this lesson before hes 18 then he can truly learn , grow and find the right path in life for him. Now he knows that standing before a judge.. because he didn't know how to say no to his friends that snuck him out is the wrong choice, and that they will throw him under the Bus, when push comes to shove. Please try not to freak out if your kids get in trouble it is life lessons, and some of them have harder ones than others. Think about yourself when you were a Teen ...What were you like? what did you do that your parents didn't know about?


Remember also how different times are now then when we were teens, Things are a lot harder now and even more peer pressure...So love and Kiss and hug your kids daily even when they drive you crazy don't push them away make your home the safe Happy Loving Home, that everyone wants to be at, Full of Food and Fun...So much better that they are at your Home than running the Streets, so take your alone time to get recharged, and then be the best that you can be to guide and lead your kids in the right direction, and trust daily that all you are doing and all your sacrifices as a parent will all be worth it in the end, and that they will choose the right path for them and that God is leading you and them in the right direction Daily....Stop worrying and start having the best time you can have with them and there friends.

All we all need is Love and when you Love yourself... then and only then can you give Love and be able to receive Love.....Live your life with so much Love and abundance... that it is contagious....Light up this dark world, and be the best that you can be daily....It all starts with you.

Peace and Love Always and Forever, Ursula

Tuesday, July 13, 2010

Loving what I Do

Good Morning,
How blessed I am to wake up early to a quiet house kids sleeping husband at work,Refreshing I get to recharge my battery...Nice.
I get to work from home, my Laptop is my best friend and money maker..How many people in the world would love to have there own schedule,and make residuals, and get payed while they sleep..That's the greatness of working with a home Business... you get to make your own hours your own Plan of Action, and be your own Boss, and you cannot get Fired unless you fire yourself.

Many Company's all over the world right now are laying people off, and giving them pink slips without any notice at all, and these people have families bills to pay, and responsibilities, so with the economy the way it is and the recession why wouldn't you want to find a Home Business that fits your personality, and run with it we have the whole Internet, all over the world at are finger tips, to Advertise are Business, and Market how we choose with so many Wonderful Social Groups to join to meet people all over the world, without even leaving your Home... you to could start making Money as quick as Today.

Making this decision to stay Home, and put my family first allows me truly to put them first cooking, cleaning, and making money in between..Why would any Mom not choose this life or dad it is truly a gift and a blessing to not miss my kids growing up. I'm the one they come to and depend on. I get to be a full time mom and a Business woman...Talk about empowering...Making money while in my nightgown...Wow and of course I get to dress up as well, and Do face to face when needed ,But most of the signing up can be done online or with SKYPE...Love Skype for my Business its the best.

Make a decision today that best fits your lifestyle Choose to live everyday doing what you love, and putting your family first,and be the best most positive role model you can be..make this world a better place by letting your light shine always. my Businesses are on my profile... If I can be of assistance to you to help you get started on a wonderful path of making money from Home contact me right away, that is my gift assisting people into having the life they have always dreamed of having.

Peace and Love Always, Ursula

Monday, July 12, 2010

Monday

Good Morning,
Woke up early on this Monday morning, kids are still sleeping, and its really windy here today so I can here the wind chimes... which I love the sound. I'm still getting everything ready for the yard sale we will have it soon, feels good when you get rid of stuff that your not using and make room for only the stuff you need its so very important to declutter your house at least once a year it makes you feel better, and is also easier to keep clean when everything has a place.

So now Brian has his little work car paid for, and its great on gas.. so perfect just for going back and forth to work, puppies did not sell yesterday so I still have a puppy daycare...That I must sell soon because my kids are falling in love with them.

Working on this week finding time for myself.. I guess I didn't realize how busy it is with three teens at home to find my alone adult time, seems the only time I really have is early mornings, and some afternoons when they swim there is always something going on with them, meals, friends, activities, court, and so many things all the time...I'm working on finding more time for my Business this week as well it feels some days there is not enough hours to do all that I would love to do.

Summer is full of Boating, camping, fishing, Yard sales, traveling, Swimming, rafting and so much more to keep the kids busy and going strong. so everyday I pray for Energy and stamina to keep on going and living life to its Fullest..Loving every single day, and creating wonderful memories along the way enjoying the good with the Bad and doing everything I can do to stay healthy and positive along the way.

Some days we just hang out and just, be... learning to do what nourishes are soul along the way..make sure you focus on loving yourself and loving others and being the best you can be sharing your gifts and talents with the world...treat people the way that you want to be treated. Celebrate life to the fullest,and enjoy the ride.

Peace and love always, Ursula

Thursday, July 8, 2010

Daily Plan Of Action

Good Morning,
Summer is finally here the whole month of June was cold, and rainy so it didn't feel like Summer, but now that we are back from are Vacation it is Hot 95 degrees, and dry and 100 degrees this weekend. I'm finally having to use my air conditioner. Kennewick Washington where I live is considered the dessert, because are Summers can get really hot Like in the 100s for Days without a break.

I love it because it means the river has a chance to warm up, and we can plan more rafting days, and Boating, and camping trips by the water, so It finally does feel like Summer. The kids swim everyday in the Summer when its Hot like this, and they start to get really dark and get guns as I call it from swimming so much, people are amazed at how skinny my kids are and how much they eat. They burn it off faster then they can store it, and so that makes them hungry so they eat all day...How nice I remember the Teen years I was a stick and could eat anything I wanted , but you have to remember how active teens, and kids are they never stop.

So for us adults its harder to lose weight unless we are burning more calories then we are consuming.WE must eat are fruits , and veggies everyday and get rid of the junk food and sometimes that's hard to do especially when your traveling... so that's were meal planning for us is so important, and smaller portions, I no for me since I turned forty its harder for me to lose, so I must workout and eat right or I'm doomed. and even then I slip up and eat the wrong foods once in awhile so I'm still not at my ideal weight, but I will be there soon, I'm not ever giving up.

Set a plan of action for yourself whether it be a Business plan , a weight loss plan, workout plan whatever it is you want, and write out how you are going to do it everyday. write out the steps you need to do daily in order to achieve what it is you say you want,and then follow that plan daily, and take the action steps to create it for yourself daily, and watch what a difference it makes when your following your goals and plans for the day.

You must take time for yourself to do this. You deserve to have everything you want in life happy healthy, and your own Business if that's what you want. We get to create the Life that works best for our self, and our family. It does take work and a lot of sweat, and tears.. are we worth it?
You get to decide to either keep talking about what you want or taking the steps to get what you want and attracting it to your Life daily. I don't know about you but I only get this one life, and I attend to Live everyday achieving all my goals, and attracting, Abundance in all areas daily, and putting myself first on my to do list in the morning, and sweating this fat off. Whatever it takes never give up on yourself its never to late. I promise if you write it all out in a journal, and then do it daily watch and see how it all works out. You deserve to be your best daily, and live a healthy positive wonderful life, but you must create it , No more just talking about it... do it Now today, If I can do it so can you. Please feel free to comment or send me something I you would like guidance in this or a partner to get started, support systems are great.

Peace, and Love Always Ursula

Wednesday, July 7, 2010

LOVING LIFE

Good Morning,
Another Day to be grateful, and thankful for. We get to be grateful for all of are blessings daily. Celebrate your Life and Live your Life to the Fullest every single Day, Do not waste anytime or thought on the Negative... Choose to focus on your blessings rather than Negative thoughts or feels.

I could have a big pity party for myself today knowing that I have to take my son back to court this morning yet again..But no I'm not going to do that, and he burned his face last night in the fire pit, he through a lighter in it, and it blew up in his face, another Life lesson..He has to learn the hard way evidently.

Choose despite everything that is going on around you to always look at the bright side of Life, I know its hard with everything that is going on around you..Trust me I am so busy everyday keeping this family Feed, active, cleaning, laundry, and on and on, but it does no good to be cranky or negative, everything runs smoother when you learn to take time for yourself and allow yourself to walk in Love, and be at peace... no matter what someone else does. Don't let someone Else's thoughts of feeling affect how you choose to live your life. You are in control of your own thoughts and feeling and nobody can tell you what will make you happy, or how to run your life... you get to look deep inside yourself and discover your passion, and gifts and talents.


When your life seems like its getting out of control, because of your busy schedule, teens, Life is Lifing...Slow down take a deep breath pray, and ask for guidance and strength..Its OK to take a day off from your responsibilities, and reflect on yourself , regroup, and ground yourself. You cant do that if your always busy rushing from thing, and situation. Learn to wake up before the kids get up and spend alone time with yourself, write a gratitude journal, and start the day just only thinking about positive in your life, ignore negative thoughts or feelings they are just a waste of energy, and do what nourishes your soul...Some of you may not even no what that is to spend quality time by yourself, so if you never do that... I invite you to start, and see how relaxed you will feel.

Then you must exercise daily do something anything is better than nothing run, walk take kids to the park, and walk to the river, hike, do something. when you do that everyday that also has a correlation on your thoughts and how you feel, and it will give you the energy you need for the day. Allow your kids to come to you and talk about anything... no matter what, you want to be the one they come to... make it a safe loving place for that. they cant come to you if your always mad.

And then remember to take vitamins daily, and eat your fruits and veggies daily..That also determines how you feel, so you see the power to live a positive healthy wonderful happy Lifestyle is up to you daily. You get to be the leader of your destiny, and do you want to be remembered as the mean evil person that everyone hates, or the Happy energetic wonderful loving person, healthy positive person...Its your choice how are you going to choose to live your life today, and always ..I intend to live my Life Happy and Positive, and not let anyone steal my Joy, and Passion for Life, and I believe I feel younger everyday because of it. I don't choose to have stress in my Life, Stress will kill you.

Peace and Love Always, Ursula

Tuesday, July 6, 2010

4th Of July Trip

Good Morning,
We had such a great time at are friends Jim, and Coryns house... they always welcome our family with open arms, and Love. Brian has been friends with Jim forever, and they were in School together, so its so great that they have been such good friends for years..Its sometimes hard to keep in touch when you have a family, but they have managed to stay in touch over the phone and getting together a couple times a year, and the kids love the 4Th of July party so much this is are second year attending, so I'm sure we will always go back as long as they invite us.

Brian told them last year that he would paint there house, since he has his own Paint Sprayer so they took him up on his offer this year and asked if he would, and Brian said of course, That's what friends do for each other help out whatever is needed, and Jim would help Brian if he ever needed anything, because they are both Givers, nice to see.

So we got there Friday afternoon, they went right to the store got all the paint and primer, and everything they would need, and started masking, and priming the house off right away, they started in the back, because its two story in the back with a daylight basement, and had the whole back sprayed out before the night was over, and then the next day they did the rest of the house... I was surprised how fast it went.

Then Jim Is the Manager for Food Service Of America and is the cook. when we get there, so he has all that kind of food that you just open and warm up, so it goes pretty smooth. Beef briskets, mashed potato's, and green beans the first night, and Big breakfast in morning that Jim made for all of us and then Italian sausages for lunch, and Stuffed Green peppers, and chicken Noodle soup for little ones for dinner. I was just amazed at how easy it is to cook with that kind of food, you basically just open it up, and warm it up and its ready...How perfect for a big crowd of people like we had.

After the guys had finished the house everyone got to go four wheeling he has a big trail in the back of the Hill they live on, so I'm so grateful I took pictures for memories.Then he made an area in the back of his yard for a big fire pit, so we all sat around the fire talking, and roasting marshmallows for smores, and then of course the kids lit some roman candles

The next day it was finally 4Th of July so we all just hung out around the house until the party which we were to be there at 4:00pm, Jim made some amazing 7 layer dips, and corn, and black bean avocado dip and brought the rest of the Beef Brisket, so it was really weird for me not to cook the whole time.. not use to that, but it was a nice break have to say. We went to the huge party and everyone brings fireworks, and they have a huge BBQ, and lots of alcohol, and beverages, everyone just eats party's, and lets off fireworks in the street..Big fun my kids love it. It was cold and windy though this year, that was the only problem, but we all managed with coats and blankets.

The next morning we were so ready to come home so Brian and I woke up early had are showers and were out of there by nine, and home by 1:00 so very nice time and now we have this week to still get things ready for a yard sale, and then plan for our Silver wood Trip. They sent Food service of America Food home with us Shrimp, Steaks and halibut and mussels...So I get to cook easy for awhile..nice.

Peace and Love Always,Ursula

Thursday, July 1, 2010

Fourth of July

Good Morning,
Wow what a busy week it has been... Brian has been working lots of overtime so he has not had a Day off in over a week, and Today finally is his last day, and then he is on Vacation for four days ...hes so ready to relax, and paint his friends house...LOL

We had a long court day yesterday with Austin, and he got to experience why its not good to sneak out at night, and hang out with the wrong crowd, and so hopefully he will learn this life lesson, and we can move on and grow and be better people because of it. I know for me I learned to always turn my cell phone off when I'm suppose to... it is important to follow the rules they are in place for a reason.

Today we are packing, Washing my car, and I'm making time for my gym to exercise very important this morning, because it will give me the energy I need to do what I need to do, and washing sheets so my mom can sleep in our bed while we are gone... she is house sitting with the animals, and we are free to travel just with our kids. So excited for our forth of July vacation we went last year and stayed with Brian's best friend, and wife and kids and we all had a great time so looking forward to a... Four Day Vacation.

Have the greatest fourth of July weekend ever, and stay safe happy, and Healthy and remember to always let your light shine bright for the world to see.

Peace, and Love Always, Ursula