Thursday, March 25, 2010

Celebrate life

Good morning,
Everyday we have a choice on whether we want to be happy, positive, loving, thoughtful, kind, or we have a choice to wake up and be the exact opposite. You get to choose daily to live the kind of life you want to live. How do you want people to remember you?

I make a choice daily to wake up with a smile despite what may be going on around me, and do the things I love to do, and put a smile on my husbands, and kids face daily. If there is a fight we get over it fast, say what we feel, and then move on. We choose not to hold on to any bad things.It is so great to laugh, and make people around you laugh by doing silly things once in awhile. It is OK not to be serious all the time. Serious people are very boring. Let your hair down once and awhile and be silly, and laugh...Come on you can do it, remember to be child like once in awhile. You live longer, and will not have all the stress, and weight you carry around.

Life is short so I get to be happy, and surround myself with positive loving people daily. In order to have the kind of life that you deserve to have you have to make that decision for yourself daily to be happy, and positive. I love to dance while I cook. with music loud, and my kids often dance with me...I no sounds silly but it works.

I really feel sorry for people that focus on the negative of everything, and because they are miserable, they attract it all around them, and then misery loves company of course, and then they create more misery all around. Whatever you think and focus on is what you attract. you all no someone like this. Do you want to be this person that everyone trys to avoid?

I want to encourage myself as well as all of you that no matter what you go through in your life. Trials and tribulation...Which we all have. We can remain positive even in the storm, and you will be amazed at how your life will change just by a simple mind shift. Life is fabulous, and wonderful, and we get to celebrate all of it...I promise you if you make this shift great, wonderful things will start happening in your life, and the people around you...Its a ripple affect, and I want you to be infectious with Love from every part of you mind, body, and soul...You can do it, and live the most power, fabulous life ever, and no matter what happens" God will not give you more than you can handle". Celebrate Life lessons, and allow yourself to get stronger, and wiser daily. Live one day at a time.

Go today, and always in Love, Peace, and make this world a better place just because your Alive, and happy, Ursula

Wednesday, March 24, 2010

Follow yor destiny

Good Morning,
My oldest son was home yesterday, he has been sick for two weeks I took him to the doctor yesterday, and he has Brocitus. So we got his medicine, and hes back to school today. They have two more days, and then they are on spring break...Fun fun fun.

I plan on taking that week off with them, and just have a great time...Whatever they want to do.
maybe do some traveling who knows. We will be very spontaneous. Life is what you make it, and for some reason this week I have been allowing, other peoples decisions to affect how I feel...And I know better than to do that. So It is time for me to shift. Regroup, and move on. Following my heart, and following the peace that guides me daily.

I was thinking about something someone said to me, about checking with everyone Else's opinion, and advice to see what there feedback was before they did something they thought that they might want to do, and then if they got great feedback... from there friends, and family then they would be able to do whatever it is that they felt like they wanted to do. I thought about that for a long time, and I feel like that is very sad. If you care so much about everyone Else's opinion that you may not follow your own destiny, because of what they say to you, Why would we want permission from someone about are life. You can share with them about what you are going to do, and then pray for peace, and guidance.

We all have different gifts, and things, and opportunities that come are way, and its our job not to miss out on our own destiny. What works for someone may not, and will not work for us. So If you find something that you have peace about, Business opportunity, workout routine,eating plan...Whatever it is ....you do not need permission to do what works for you, and it does not matter what anyone thinks, as long as it works for you. Follow your still small voice inside of you to guide and lead you to the perfect life for you, and no matter what your husband or people may think about your decision, It is what works for you, and the confidence you feel by doing it,will effect you, and everyone else around you positively because when you follow your heart, mind , body, and soul....Life starts to work the way it is suppose to work for you. Be the leader of your Life.

Please do not let other peoples thoughts, and feelings steal your destiny, because at the end of the day.... they are doing what they want...and so can you. You can not make everyone around you happy all the time, and there will be people that don't like you,regardless of what you do, and will not except you no matter what ...So do what you Love, and the rest will follow....Live your life the best that you can... no matter what. Be confident, and your true beauty will shine through, and people will want what you have.

Peace and Love Always, Ursula

Tuesday, March 23, 2010

Life

Good morning,
Wow...Life is busy, and great. I have two wonderful home base businesses that allow me to stay home, and put my family first.Spring break is next week already, so I will get to take most of the spring break off, and find some wonderful things to do with my kids.

My middle son has already been invited to go on a vacation to silver wood with a friends family for three days...So he is very excited. WE will have lots of fun whatever we do I'm sure.

I get to live life as if it could be my last day... with no regrets. I surround myself with such positive and uplifting people, and network with people that are like minded everyday...How great is it to be.... around positive uplifting people...it is the best.

There will be days that you get overwhelmed or think how can I possibly do everything that it takes to run successful businesses, People keep saying to me your husband has a great job why would you want to work, and clean the house take care of the hubby, and the kids, but I'm here to say it is possible, and I like to work I'm a business women. You have to focus on one day at a time, and do your best daily to accomplish the most important things from day to day, and if the house is not perfectly clean everyday...Oh well theres always a new day tomorrow. I feel the most important thing in my life from day to day is to make sure that I'm doing everything I can to take great care of myself First...Exercise,eat right,take great care of husband, and kids...and if you do that, then you are and will be successful in every other area in your life.

Be your own cheerleader, and when you get down find the next best cheerleader in your life to remind you that you can do it. It is my choice to work from home, and I plan on only including my perfect matches in my networking business....I refuse to let any ones bad attitude bring me down. We are in charge of our own destiny...so live the best life you can possibly live today and always.

Peace, and Love Always, Ursula

Wednesday, March 17, 2010

Great Business

Good Morning.
Happy St Patricks Day. My kids made sure that they had green on today, so that no one would pinch them. I even have a green shirt on today..why not green is a great color.

Here in Washington they passed the Law that you can not talk on your cell phone unless you have a headset, and No texting, because there has been so many accidents, related to cellphone, and texting. I found the most amazing Company to partner up with, that has figured out how to give you your own virtual assistant, and have her do anything you want by your voice...How great is that. This is a Company that has figured out how to lower your Cell phone Bill, and get rid of your home phone if you choose, save you money, and Time. And pay you every time they use there phone. You don't have to do the Business... you can just get your assistant.

What this opportunity gives you is a way to no longer play phone tag, simplifies your life by, giving you a personal assist phone number, and you put all your phone numbers, and email, address, and all your info into the computer, and you have now one phone number for your own personal assist, and she now does everything for you. You call her, and she will say what do you want to do. So you can be driving with your headset on , and say to her read my email..she will read your email for you, and say would you like to Reply... you speak your reply, and she sends it for you. Also you can have her make dinner reservations, set appointments, send text messages with your voice to anyone you want, and they actually show up on the other persons phone, as if you typed it.....HOW COOL IS THIS.

This is why I signed up to Financial Destinations, Inc...Also they have the greatest less expensive cell phone plan that I have seen, and they pay you residual income for signing people up to this wonderful plan... that is going to make us all safe better drivers, and simplify are life...Who needs your own personal assistant...I love her already her name is Kylee, and she could be your new personal assist too.. Lets get started today... on a Safe Simpler way to communicate with the people we love. Imagine how much more time you will have just by using her, and your voice. I love modern Technology. Ask me how you can get started today, together we can live safer, healthier Life's.
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Peace, and Love Always, Ursula




Monday, March 15, 2010

reationships

Good Morning,
today I want to talk about relationships, whether you are married,. Dating, or living together.
Whatever it took to get the the person your with is what it will take to keep them.
remember when you first met the person your with..How excited and nervous, all at the same time, and how you couldn't wait to see them, and here there voice. How handsome, and how pretty you thought that they were.

Well that's what I'm talking about. You start a relationship not knowing anything about what its going to take to keep the sparks flying, and then you may have some kids, and a job, and soon more responsibilities... that your not sure how to balance. then if your not careful you may start fighting over things, that are not that bad, but you get frustrated because your plate is full, and as the kids get older you are running here there, and everywhere.

Do you want to no a secret...Whatever it took to get the person that you Love is what it will take to keep them regardless of how many things that change in your life. You need to take great care of yourself just like you did when you first met them..remember how you took your time to exercise, shave, get all dressed up, and smell good...well that's what I'm talking about.

Just because you have been with a person for alot of years does not mean that you can stop trying to be all that you can be, Your spouse does not want you to be home all day with the kids, and look like you just woke up, with your hair a mess, and your ugliest close on, and complaining about how bad your day was....Because guess what they are not going to want to come home to that.

Its your responsibility to take great care of yourself even when you have found your perfect match. Exercise daily, Eat healthy food, and if you are a stay at home mom or dad make sure that you look in the mirror at yourself before your spouse gets home, and fix your hair, put some makeup on for the women and dress up once in awhile. Don't be so predictable...Step out of the box once in awhile. Men are very visual, and hunters...Give them something great to stare at once in awhile, and hunt for. LOL.

I can only talk about my experience with being married for sixteen years, and I know from my life that this works, and keeps your husband happy, and interested. I work from home so most of the day I'm in workout close, but I tell you before my kids and husband get home I take a shower and pull my self together, dress nice,put makeup on, and curl my hair, and we have lots of alone time to keep are marriage alive..we are best friends, and lovers.

choose some things that you can do today to keep your relationships strong, and alive, so that when the kids are grown your not looking at your partner going who is this person...don't just be roommate's keep your love alive and connect as much as possible.

Peace and Love Always, Ursula

Thursday, March 11, 2010

Good Morning,
This morning I got my husbands lunch ready, and he started a Van pool again since his work is an hour away, it saves on gas and wear and tear on our vehicle, so I got my Jeep back no more roller coaster rides with the Blazer for awhile.

I take Thursdays off from work just to have a day to run errands, clean, meet with friends or whatever comes up...Its a great day for silence as well. Today I'm in a peaceful place reflecting, all the new changes in my life. Taxes done, Brian's New Government Job, My job that I get to make my own hours...Its great to work at home as a Independent contractor. I have many offices. I have a outdoor office that Brian built for me... that over looks the Pool, so that I can watch my kids swim while I work, and a office all set up in the upstairs living room, and then of course the portable laptop that goes everywhere, when I feel like today being downstairs in the family TV room.

Life is great, and I get to celebrate it everyday. Make sure you celebrate all your new changes in your life, and take a day for yourself to simply be still, and listen to the small voice within yourself to help guild, and lead you in the direction that is right for you. Always follow your Peace, and if you don't have Peace about something don't do it. Learn yourself, and what makes you Happy.

I got my son Devan's physical yesterday he is thirteen, and five feet Five inch,only two inches shorter than me. He is healthy, and has 20/20 vision... he has the best eye site, he is ready for Track...Hes my runner, both Brian, and I were in Track, and we loved it so it will be great. Hes got his new shoes and clothes and ready to go.

Please moms, and everyone take time for yourself, I cannot say that enough...We have to recharge are battery in order to keep on keeping on, and to be the best that we can be. Be sure you get enough sleep, water, and exercise, stay healthy, and Positive, eat lots of fruit and veggies, and Celebrate your life, and your family today.

Peace and Love Always, Ursula

Wednesday, March 10, 2010

Positive life

Good morning,
I'm amazed out how when you right out your goals, and plans for a healthy positive life...Things fall together so Great. What I mean is I right down everything in my life as if it already happened. Like the Boat is running great the bills are always payed on time, and there is plenty of money for savings,Giving, and things we need. My Home is beautiful, and everything in it I Love, and my backyard is a Paradise Vacation retreat, and birds are always singing. Oh and money is always on its way..... EXPECT ABUNDANCE.

If you wake up everyday writing out exactly what you want, and taking the actions to make everything happen, and stay positive while you wait magic happens...Its as simple as that.
Sometimes we make things harder than they are with negative thoughts, and fleshly ways.
Life does not have to be hard, and stressful. We get to right the story of our life, and then create a plan of action, and watch miracles start to happen. Of course sometimes unexpected things happen that's Life we just get to choose to handle them with a positive attitude.

I know this for a fact, because this has happens again, and again in my life. We get to attract everything we want in our life whatever your situation is whether it be lose weight, create more money, better job, get out of dept .....Whatever you want you have the power to get it. You just get to create a plan, and find a way to make it happen by your words , writing it out, and expecting, and staying POSITIVE that is so important.

Be the Creator of your own Wonderful exciting powerful Life today write it out, and watch miracles happen in your life. People ask me all the time why I'm so happy and Positive, and I say because I choose daily to be the Healthiest, Happiest, most Positive person I can be, because life is short, and I do not choose to waste one single day of it ....Be your best always, and be the greatest roll model you can be to yourself, and your family, and friends.

Peace and Love Always... make today and always the greatest possible Day you can, as if it could be your last...What kind of person do you want to be remembered to be. Did you make a difference in the the world, or with your family.
Love Always, Ursula

Tuesday, March 9, 2010

Celebrating the simple things

Good Morning,
Celebrating the simple things in life. I get to drive an old blazer for awhile while Brian's in training in Richland, and I have to tell you the kids, and I have been having so much fun it needs new shocks so its very bouncy, and hard to stop, because its so heavy and has a powerful 350 engine, it brings me back to teenage years, when I would always ride with people who had big rigs that looked ugly but were fun to drive. This Blazer will be Austins next year, and it costs a lot to fill up, so he will get to charge friends for rides, and get a job.

Instead of focusing on situations in life that you feel are difficult, and problems...Change your attitude and create every situation to be positive and fun. When I'm driving the big old blazer I picture myself in a big 4 wheel drive red jeep. my kids laugh the whole way to School, because its so bouncy and yesterday I hit the curb....Freee fun.

I joke with Brian that all the people think that his Blazer is sexy, and men hit on me when I'm driving it especially when the top goes off in the summer...LOL.

We don't need a bigger house nicer cars the best of everything sometimes just the simple things in life make you the happiest...Just being with my three wonderful kids, and there different personalities makes me happy, so no matter what I drive or what I have to do as long as its with my family...Life is great.

My fifteen year old son had a MP3 player that broke, and we sent it back to the factory for repair, and on Friday we got a flyer in the mail saying a car lot was giving away free MP3 players, so we went and got him a free one while he was waiting, and then yesterday they sent him a new one in the mail. So my son decided that I better have the free MP3 player, and he downloaded all the songs that I love, and deleted his songs, and said here you go mom..now you have your own music when you workout. So sweet... I adore my kids, and I am looking forward to a wonderful Summer with them...Fun in the sun swimming, and boating all summer long.

Live your best life always, and celebrate the simple things in life and "when life gives you lemons, make lemonaide".
Peace, and Love Always, Ursula

Monday, March 8, 2010

Good Morning Everyone,
I had the greatest weekend ever with my family. Watching movies, and hanging out. We actually got the lawn mower out, and mowed the back yard.... it was sunny and beautiful, and trimmed the Apple Tree. Had a BBQ.
great Beautiful weekend, and I cooked alot of great meals for my family.

Now that my Grandma has died there is just a great since of peace knowing that she is in heaven and not suffering, she is getting her Earn buried today in her plot in Emmett Idaho. she was the most amazing women ever. I can only hope that I can be a great Grandma like she was.

This week I'm going to shop for the light, and mirror for the bathroom, and do some more spring cleaning. Shop for new counter tops for the kitchen. Making my house a home that I love. Brian started his new Job today he has four months of training before he can even start the job, so that will be a big change for him. Its always good to get more knowledge.

So I guess that's all today. I cant think of a whole lot to say other than Life is great, and we are all well Loved , Happy, and Healthy.

Live your Best Life Always, Ursula

Wednesday, March 3, 2010

personalizing your Home

Good Morning,
Yesterday I made some changes to my House. Work was slow, so I decided to take the mirror out of the bathroom, to update are bathroom with a new modern mirror, and new light fixtures. I was just talking about making your house a home, and that's what I mean change things once in awhile, and continue to update. Your home should reflect who you are, so if you have old outdated things in your Home... it makes you feel good to change, and mix things up.

I'm all about making life the greatest it can be through your actions, and way of being. If you want to be a happy healthy person, It starts with making sure your Home is a place that makes you happy. Even in the bathroom no matter how old, or what size it is make it your Spa. New mirrors, new lights, new rugs, new shower curtains.They can make you smile every time you use it. It doesn't have to cost alot it just has to reflect who you are and what you love.

I encourage you to start room by room and create each room in your home, a place that reflects what you Love, and what makes you happy. This is great therapy to help lift your spirit, and everyone in your home gets to enjoy it. I took out two walls last year to open up the space between the entryway, and between the kitchen, and dinning room, and wow what a great change, and now the space is opened up for a better flow, so there are things that you can do to create a Home that is a great happy place to be no matter what the size is.

Utilize the full potential of your Home, and make every area a place that you, and your family Love.Make your backyard a backyard Paradise vacation. Who says we cant vacation in our backyard. We do every year with swimming, campfires, and so much more.

So my new spa bathroom will be done soon, and by the new mirror , lights, and new paint. it will make me smile every time I walk In. So I encourage you to make your house a home, and make it a place that reflects who you are, and makes you, and your family very happy. I promise it will lift your spirit.

Peace, and Love Always, Ursula

Tuesday, March 2, 2010

Healthy Life

Good morning,
I got my kids to School, and just had a great workout in my home gym, and now I'm eating oatmeal talking to my Wonderful friends. Life is so great we get to create our perfect lifestyle that works for us. When you do what you Love... life is magical.

I made a choice three years ago to make a decision to take great care of myself, many moms put everyone else before themselves thinking that, that is what makes a great Mom. If you do not take care of yourself than you cant be the greatest mom ever. It starts with you. Making a healthy Lifestyle, choosing exercise daily, and healthy foods for yourself, and your family. If your cup is empty, how can you fill anyone Else's.

Do what you Love, and then find away to get payed for it. We all have talents, gifts, and strengths. I found the most amazing Home Business Three years ago, and it has changed my whole Life. I feel healthier, and stronger everyday, because of the Vitamins, and healthy organic products. I don't have to clean my house with toxins anymore, and because of that, It has improved mine, and my family's health, and my sons eczema is completely gone. There are no chemicals in our home, that irritate his skin.

So I found a great Home Business, and I have a great life helping others improve there life's, and making money as I go. working in my exercise closes on my laptop... out in the beautiful Sunny Day, and getting to spend amazing quality time with my family. I will have no regrets as I get to watch them grow up, and spend every Summer with them watching them swim, and doing what they Do. That is the greatest Quality life, that I get to create Daily...I am Blessed.

I encourage all of you today to live your Best life taking great care of yourself, and making healthy choices for you, and your family, and doing what you Love, and Living a stress Free, carefree, Happy Life, it is achievable...You just get to create it for yourself.

Peace, and Love Always, Ursula

Monday, March 1, 2010

making your House a Home

Good Morning,
Monday is here again, and the kids are back to School, and Brian's back to work, this is his last week at his job,next week he starts his new Hanford job... We are so excited for all the new changes that are happening, and we are preparing early for a wonderful Summer.

We are going to focus on creating a Wonderful Backyard Paradise. WE are going to make it a wonderful place to swim, Have Pool Parties, have BBQS, Outdoor movies... with are new projector, Campfires, A place that everyone wants to be, so that are kids want to be home, and not running the streets.

Are Boat needs some TLC this year, as well so we will be getting the repairs done on that, and there will be many Boating, and fishing trips. Can you tell that I am very excited for Summer. The Sun is starting to shine here, and I always get excited when the flowers start to bloom. We are ready to be in the outdoors enjoying beautiful Sunny Days.

Create a place in your Home, and backyard that your proud of, and that you love. Making a house a Home with your own personal touches is so important. We get to create what we love all around us... things that make you happy. I love Solar everything. It is so great to have Solar light shows in your backyard. Making your Home a place that you, and your family Love with your own personal touches are so Great. We Love are Home, and Most importantly are kids Love to be Home.

Make today a Day of clutter free, clean organized Beautiful Home, and put your Wonderful Personal touches all around you. Make the best of what you have. Create your perfect Beautiful Home, and Yard it will lift your spirits...I promise.

Peace, and Love Always, Ursula