Wednesday, October 28, 2009

Halloween

Good Morning,
Took Austin to the orthopedic doctor yesterday, and they took another x-ray, and his pinkie bone is healed so tomorrow he goes back, and they are going to remove the nail they put in during surgery. They are going to give him a shot in his finger, and cut it open, and remove the nail. My son is not excited about this at all, he keeps saying he does not want it to come out yet. I will be glad when that appointment is over.

My kids got to go to a big Halloween party last night at there Youth group they got to dress up,
and ate pizza, pop, candy, and all kinds of snacks. They had a great time, there is another party tonight Austins going to, and Devan has one at the school, and they are having a Halloween dance on Friday...So lots of fun. Our adult party is Friday night, and then of course Devan is invited to a big Halloween party on Saturday with his friend that has a indoor pool, so they will be swimming, and eating lots of candy I'm sure. I will take Brooke trick or treating, and Brian will hand out candy, and Austin is to old to trick or treat, so he will hand out candy and eat it... I'm sure.

Today is all about working out...which I just did so I feel better more energy, Working on some calls for my business, and making healthy food for myself, and figuring out something healthy for dinner. Tomorrow is usually my friends get together day, but I'm going to have to cancel do to Austins Dr Appointment, because I'm just going to keep him home from school for the day. His finger will be soar I'm sure. So that covers this week I wish you all a great Halloween and remember to take great care of yourself today, and always.

Tuesday, October 27, 2009

Good Morning,
Today is one day closer to the Halloween Party. I have been eating even healthier than I normally do lots of banana's, apples, raw nuts, spinach mixed with fruit in the blender ....yum. I feel like I do better with my exercise routine when I have things in my life to look forward to like party's, and activities that are planned, everyone needs a great motivator, and I always feel so great when I have weeks that I take great care of myself. I have not had one piece of candy yet, and to be honest I don't even feel like buying it this year for Halloween, and at the party I will bring my own fruit so that I wont be tempted to eat there candy, I'm not a big fan of sweets anyway Fruit is sweet enough for me.

Yesterday was all about spoiling are new puppy's, and friends came over to see them. So today I get to clean house wash sheets, and get my house in order...Fun right. Take a shower, advertise my business, do some presentations, figure out a healthy meal for dinner, pick up kids from school,Help with homework, and eat dinner, Take them to there youth group Halloween party, spend time with husband, and go to bed.... How exciting, right. Story of a moms life always busy never enough time to get everything done. Then try, and create a social life as well amidst everything. Have a great Day everyone.

Monday, October 26, 2009

Monday.

Good Morning,
Monday is here again it amazes me how the weeks just go by so fast. The new puppy's are now three weeks old, and they have there eyes opened...They are so cute. Next comes walking around playing with each other. They are ready for there new homes November 21, so if you know anyone that would love to have a new Chihuahua puppy for the Holidays contact me.

I just got the kids to school, and got my workout completed... I love having a home gym it makes my life so much easier. I'm concentrating on working my Abs this week, because my husband, and I have been invited to a Halloween party this Friday night, and my super girl costume shows my abs, so lots of sit ups, and weight training, and palates this week, and a tan... is what is required. My husband is freaking out, because I bought him a Superman costume, and he has to wear tights, he is not a happy camper, so I will be sure to take lots of pictures to tease him. LOL. It will be lots of fun since it is an adults only party. He will have a few drinks, and forget hes in tights, and he cant wear his glasses.

This week also on Tuesday we go back to the doctor for Austin to get his nail removed from his pinkie finger, or just checked I'm not sure what they are going to do. My husband also had an interview last Friday for a new job out at Hanford, so we are praying for that, its more money...which is always nice since the Holidays are coming, and with three teenagers you know how expensive that is, just feeding them is crazy expensive. I wish all of you a great day, and like I always say do something wonderful for yourself today.

Wednesday, October 21, 2009

Kids bad choices.

Good Morning,
Yesterday was a crazy day. I talk alot about positive living, but there are some days, that I really need to go back, and read my own Blogs, because sometimes it seems that when one bad thing happens it just continues on all day. So this is how it went. Woke up with my husband, got his lunch ready, and visited with him at 4:30am then went back to sleep the kids forgot to set there alarm, except my oldest. So we all had to hurry to get out the door for school. Got them to school came home exercised as I always do, continued on with my daily routine, worked, and got a call from my kids school my middle child is in seventh grade, and this year he has decided that he would rather be the class clown, and hang around all the people that think there funny, and they just don't feel like doing school work they just want to flirt with the girls, and party. so he calls me to tell me that he has a step 4 ...Which means that a parent has to come in, and talk to the principal before he can go back to class. So I get to the office, and the principal has Devan tell me what happened, and Devan said "That he was horsing around at recess with his friends" So basically the principal explained that he and his group of friends have all been warned, and he still continued to do it.. Which the kids call it 'slap ass Friday, they like to slap kids in the ass. Its getting out of control, girls have been doing it as well they all think its funny,The principal however does not think that it is funny. So anyway I brought up his grades, and the principal checked them in his computer, and said " You are in honors class for math and science, and if you get behind you could get kicked out of that class.He knows how to do the work hes very smart hes just choosing not to turn in his work, So I am having my son stay after school until he gets it all figured out that school work has to be completed, and turned in on time all the time...Which is really ridicules, because he is thirteen. I guess for me as a mom I have always told my kids that School is the most important part right now for them to focus on, because I want them all to go to college, and have a great life. I also understand that they want to have fun to, so hopefully he can get back on track, because this is a non working situation. So as a mother when things like this happen... I need to take a deep breath, and not let it affect my mood for the whole day.

Today seems to be a better day, so there is light at the end of the tunnel. We can lead, and teach are children and realize they are children, and they are going to make mistakes, and they are life lessons, that we all have to learn. Have a great day, kiss, and hug your children even if they make bad choices.

Tuesday, October 20, 2009

Marriages.

Good Morning,
I feel refreshed, and back to normal, last week was very different my husband was practically home all week because of a power outage. My husband means well, but hes the type of husband that doesn't know what to do when hes home so he just sits in his recliner all day watching TV, and wanting to know everything about everything wanting me to sit there with him. I cant stand it, because I am the opposite I take the kids to school come home ,workout, write my Blog. I hardly watch TV. I feel like hes kind of like having a kid at home to cook for, and take care of. Don't get me wrong, I love him it is just that we are so different, and the things that stimulate his mind, don't mine. Like I like to stay busy... so I can think of projects for him to do around the house, and he would rather waste his day watching TV, and that is annoying to me. So when hes gone working all day I have time to miss him, and that makes a stronger marriage to me. Plus I don't have to see him on the recliner wasting the days. Now if you ask him he would say that he loves being home spending lots of alone time with me. I guess that's how woman are different then men. I'm always thinking about everything that needs to be done around here, and he just wants lots of days off. I can see why so many marriages have problems when they retire, because they end up driving each other crazy. No matter how much you love someone there are still things that drive you crazy about them.

For my sanity I have to just ignore the fact that he is different than I am, and that we both have separate needs, and wants. I do the things that are important to him.. Food and SEX... LOL and I nourish my soul by working out eating right... which is also not important to him. working at a home job that I love, and keeping positive influences in my life, and taking one day a week to be with my great positive friends, we get dressed up, go to coffee, lunch, shopping... whatever we feel like on that day, and that truly nourishes my soul, so I guess I just need to celebrate the differences between a man and a woman, and just continue doing what I need to do to take great care of myself, and my family, and not worry about anything else. By the way we are going on our sixteen year anniversary in November, so I guess I can keep going. Have a great Day, and do something wonderful for yourself, and celebrate your differences today.

Monday, October 19, 2009

Monday Morning

Good Morning,
Today is back to normal husband back to work, and kids back to school...its a great Day, lots of alone time which I love. I came home, exercised... which always makes me feel better, now of course writing my Blog, and then on to Business presentations. Great day so far what a great day to be able to work from home.

What I have found in my life is it is either working, or not working. So I focus on whats working in my life, and not whats not working, because when you continue working on whats working you do not put any energy on whats not. Eventually you get what you focus on so by focusing on the working aspects of your life, Guess what... great things start to happen for you, and you start to have a whole new outlook on life, Your attitude changes, and people around you will change because you have, and you will be a happier more rounded person.
Start focusing today on all the aspects of your life that you love, and then do that for every area of your life. Write down all the positive aspects of your life ,and then create a plan of action on all the things you feel are not working. What ever it is if you want more communication with a loved one, more money, or whatever it is, start journaling your plan of action, and like I said 'whatever you write, or speak about , or focus on you can create for yourself. Life is way to short not to create your wonderful life, So I encourage myself, and you to start your Action plan today. Write out the life you want and create it today. you can put it all in a vision board and focus on it daily too.

Make this the best possible life that you can have you deserve to have everything you have ever wanted start today. You do have the ability to make anything that you want happen. You just have to do it. Have a great day. Remember for home base business ideas. http://momswantmore.com/ursula



Saturday, October 17, 2009

Saturday morning

Good Morning,
I'm working in my outdoor office today, and decided to write, alot has been going on. A death in the family my husbands grandma died last weekend, she had been in a nursing home for a few years so we knew it would just be a matter of time, they seem to fail faster in those places, and my grandma is in a Alzheimer unit, and my neighbor also died, growing older happens, and we just have to know that when they do die that they are in a better place.

My mother is sixty six, and has never been a part of my kids life, because she is an alcoholic, and very selfish. so sad to say, she has been dead for awhile also, it feels like. When I say to my kids do you want to go to grandmas house they all scream 'No at the same time...how sad, Are you alive and present in your life? or are you merely going through the motions to try and survive. Are you happy? Are you living life to the fullest? How would people remember you, if you died today? These are the things I always think about, are you leaving an impact on people around you, Are you a caring and loving person? Are are you known as the fun killer? Deaths in the family always make me feel like I want to do the best for myself, and my family, and the people around me to leave a positive mark on this world...Lord knows we have enough negativity around us, we do not need to contribute.

Look at your life today, and think about someone you loved that died, and ask yourself what kind of person they were, and what kind of person are you going to be remembered for when you die. I encourage you to Make some great positive changes for yourself today. be a loving nourishing person. Laugh as much as possible, and focus on whats good, and not bad you can retrain your thoughts, feelings and emotions. Do it today, Blessings Ursula

Wednesday, October 14, 2009

Wednesday

Good Morning,
Wednesday is here already, and the rain just keeps poring down. My husband was off work Monday, and Tuesday do to an electricity outage at the plant. Today hes back to work, and it is the first day in five days, that I get to have some alone time. Anyone that has family's knows how wonderful alone time is when you can get it. I guess I'm not totally alone I have my Chihuahuas, and the baby's.

I keep talking about doing what you love, and then figuring out how to get paid for it, because life is so short, so why would you want to waste precious time doing things you don't like to do, or being around people in your life that don't have the same vibration. We need to stop being people pleasers, and do what we love to do. I understand that in life there are things that we have to do with spouses, or children that we may not always be pationent about, but that's the way it is to keep the peace. What I am talking about is to dig deep within your soul, and discover yourself, and your needs better than anyone else. when you spend alone time with yourself something wonderful starts to happen you can actually here yourself think, and by journaling, and writing out a gratitude journal it changes your whole perspective on life. You no longer focus on whats wrong in your life it changes your attitude, and you become a better more thankful, productive person, and you look at people in a whole new light. I only have a limited time that I can alicate for friends, and I am very picky because we all deserve the best. I have been very blessed to find the friends that are in my life right now there vibrations are a perfect match, but it took awhile to find that.

Create your best life for yourself take the time for yourself that you deserve. Put yourself on your to do list by... exercising, meditating, eating right. Life can be abundant you just have to create it for yourself... When you look good, and feel good inside, and out you become a greater person. So as I always say do something wonderful for yourself today.

Tuesday, October 13, 2009

Tuesday Morning

Good Morning,
It is getting very cold here already, kids are bringing all kind of sicknesses home. I have been trying to pump lots of vitamins down them, and healthy food, it has been a bad cold, and flu season so far.

I have been having great luck with my business lately lots of new prospects to call.. which is great. Keeps me in business, it is fun teaching people how they can make money from home, and putting there family first, especially during the cold and flu season when kids are missing school. Yesterday my son was home sick, and I was able to bring my laptop downstairs, and advertise while taking care of my son. Working when I can, and still making residual income is the way to go. I love enrolling people online with my pajamas, and slippers on, and when I go out, and meet people. I get all dressed up like the Business woman I am... It is a great life, and It is the Life I have chosen, that best suits my personality, and serves my family well.

You have the power with in you to create the life that works for you, follow your passion, and no matter what do what you love, and the rest will follow. When you are doing what you love, and getting paid for it, it doesn't seem like work. You intern become happier, and healthier. When you wake up everyday, you want to look forward to the day... geting excited about your life, and if you are not living that kind of life I encourage you to reevaluate your life today, and make some positive changes for yourself today. Do something wonderful for yourself today. http://momswantmore.com/ursula

Monday, October 12, 2009

Monday morning


Good Morning,
This weekend was great we had a great surprise our Chihuahua had her baby's we weren't expecting them until the end of the month so she surprised us. What a nice surprise it was she had three, and they are so cute they are so small they fit in the palm of your hand. the first one a boy is chocolate, the second was all black with white on his chest, the third was a girl all white with black around her eyes. I have been breeding for about two years we get to spoil them for six weeks, and then place them in a loving home... it is great. Chihuahuas make great family pets they are small there poop disappears in your yard, so you don't have to worry about the backyard mess. they can fit in a dog purse, and love to travel, and go for walks, and they love children. Thank goodness for the Beverly Hills Chihuahua movie that has made them even more popular. they are amazing smart dogs ,and we enjoy them so much. If you know anyone that is in need for an amazing dog contact me. One is already sold the black one. the other two are available they go fast, and they will be ready November 21... Great holiday present for yourself or your family. I will post some pictures of them soon be watching.

Wednesday, October 7, 2009

NEIGHBORS DEATH

Good Morning,
It was a crazy day yesterday there were police all in front of my house, I had to question myself to see if I was a felon, and they were looking for me. lol My neighbor who was seventy four years old did not report to work on Monday, and she never missed work unless, she called. she was a loyal employer. Her house was the kind of house that all the neighbors hated because she never watered her yard, never had her house painted, and we offered to paint it for free, she had trees growing too close to her house, and trees falling on her roof, and it seems she was such a loner she didn't want to except help from anyone, so she would leave first thing in the morning, and not come home until dark seven days a week. For us as long as we ignored the way her house looked she was a great neighbor, because she was never home. So anyway she did not answer the door when the cops knocked, so they had to break in, and I could here the cops say " This is the kennewick police is anyone here" I went outside to see what was going on, because I could see them taking pictures of her house. The police officer came over to talk to me, and told me they found her dead in her bed, and he wanted to know when was the last time I saw her car gone. I told him I thought she was gone on Saturday. She had just got diagnosed with diabetes, and had talked to my husband two weeks before that, asking to have my son mow her yard, because she was so tired. So she probably had a insulin attack, who knows. I asked the cop if the inside of the house was as bad as the outside, and he said I cant tell you that, but the door is open you can peak in. So her co-worker said to me come on lets peak in, and it was as I expected She was a HOARDER ever place in her house was packed full of sacks of stuff you couldn't even open the door all the way, because there was stuff behind the door. she had a small path of news papers in her hall leading to her bedroom, she would not of been able to cook in her kitchen, because the counters were so full. Her car was packed full of stuff the whole front and back, because she ran out of room in her house. Have you ever watched the show the HOARDERS it is a huge problem with some people. How sad. SO she has two grown children, and I'm not sure what there going to do with the house, for now it is vacant, and the door is all bordered up, because they broke the glass on the door. You never no who the hoarders are, but they are everywhere, and I wish there was more help for them, but unfortunately they are to embarrassed to get help until its to late like this case. Have a great Day.

Tuesday, October 6, 2009

Tuesday Morning

Good Morning, Got my kids to school, workout done, and now its time to talk to you my wonderful followers. The weather is getting cold, and there seems to be alot more sickness in the air, and now with the scare of the swine flu. Load up on your vitamins and eat healthy food, and wash your hands alot, Get plenty of rest. My daughter has picked up some kind of virus, so I have some counter act pills that I have been giving her through my wellness company, and children's vitamins, so hopefully it wont pass through the family. I have been taking my regular vitamins, along with Activate which helps with the Immune system.

I know that staying positive with everything that is going on in your life is a challenge, so I challenge you today to do that for yourself, and know that God will not give you more than you can handle. We all go through trials and tribulation, and you can either allow them to effect your attitude, and turn you negative, or you can make a choice to stay positive, and trust that everything is going to be OK regardless of the set backs. I believe that everything that happens is life lessons, and we can grow, and learn to be better people from them. So even when we have sick kids, Someone does something to make you mad, or whatever it is in your life. Brush it off,keep you vibrations high, and don't let anyone else bring you down... stay Happy, and positive. You can do it. Live your best life today.



Monday, October 5, 2009

Monday morning

It is Monday morning once again, and my house is so quiet. I got my kids to school, husband is working, and I have such a grateful heart this morning. I feel blessed everyday to have my life filled with lots of laughter, Joy, and Love. My family means the world to me. I love this season getting decorations out, and decorating the house carving pumpkins, cooking them, eating pumpkin pie, and creating wonderful memories for my kids. When I bake something, and they come home from school, they get so excited because they are so hungry after school, and the house smells so good..priceless moments, with my kids. I get to watch them grow up, and be there when they are done with school, every moment with them is Great.

As I expressed yesterday in my Blog its not about material items, and how much money you have its about quality time with your family, and taking the time with your kids that they need, making them your first priority. You cant get those years back they grow so fast. What good does it do to focus so much on your career, that you don't have time for your kids. So you feel guilty when you do see them, so you buy them everything thinking that, that will make up for the time you cant spend with them. Take time to smell the roses make life changing moments today.

I encourage every mom out there to reevaluate your life today, and do some wonderful things for yourself, and your family today. Life is to short to be miserable. So make some positive choices for yourself today. Have a great Day.

Sunday, October 4, 2009

Sunday day of abundance with family

Today has been such a great day, I decided to write a blog about it. Many people search there whole life thinking if only they have a bigger house, nicer car, more money better this, and better that they will be happy. only to find out that once they obtain there goal for there life that they are still miserable with more to take care of, and hiding in the stuff. I believe if you dig deep inside that what everyone is looking for is love, and to be accepted. Look deep inside and create your perfect life, for yourself. Its not about keeping up with the Jones its about having a grateful heart, and being grateful for everything you have, and where you are in your life is where your suppose to be. Create your perfect life for yourself today. I enjoy where I am everyday knowing I have the power to create the life I want, and what I have chosen Is an amazing husband that puts his family before himself, and three amazing kids, that god has blessed me with, and I have an amazing home business, and I am able to put myself, and my family first.

Today we decorated our home for Halloween, and made some great home cooked healthy meals, and then me neighbor came over with some rice crispy treats with chocolate on them...Yum. Just focusing on all the positive in my life has been the answer to true happiness. Its a choice everyday to live as positive as possible. What I have found is it becomes a ripple affect with the whole family. Treating people the way that you want to be treated really works. I encourage everyone to dig deep, and create a happy life for yourself today. Take some time, and slow down from your busy lives, and just listen to yourselves, and your family's needs. http://momswantmore.com/ursula